"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Conversion: the key to the DJ

izza

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Many have remarked that to become a true DJ, you have to change how you think - in fact, your whole lifestyle.

The most important change is what I call conversion. A true DJ is always converting what he has into something more; when a DJ gets good EC from a HB he says hello; when the HB says hello back, the DJ converts that to conversation; conversation leads to the # close attempt; failed # close leads to F*ck close, haha. You get the idea.

A true DJ converts as many of these little opportunities, which might seem nearly insignificant, into genuine opportunities to bag a hot babe. The AFC, on the other hand, barely makes EC, lacks the balls to greet, doesn't drag himself over to the HB for conversation, and NEVER asks for the number.

Rolling the dice, converting the little opportunities into bigger ones is what separates boy from man; AFC from genuine Don Juan.

Izza
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think I know what you mean. A good DJ can take anything a woman says and seem to magically find someway to convert it into a conversation, many cannot do this
 

izza

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Brad,

Absolutely, DJ's have great conversational skills. Moreover, what I was trying to get at is that DJs always make the effort to convert EC into a hello and a hello into a conversation with HBs. A DJ is always prepared, always ready to roll the dice in any situation to try to convert EC into a number.

Conversational skill is just as important as always being ready to use it.

Izza
 
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