"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The TallOne

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Question.

How should a conversation go with a girl, that you know/suspect is interested in you? Girls obviously like to talk alot... but shouldn't the majority of girls "in" to you, start asking you alot of personal questions?

I've been chattin up this girl today, I know she was interested in me, flirting heavily, touching etc. The majority of questions came from me (as its supposed to be, imo). Shouldn't the same questions, if not others, be re-directed back?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wiesman44

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read the Don Juan bible posted on this site. You will know exactly what to do after reading it. I'd tell you waht to say and how to do it, but id be writing just as much as whats in that ebook.
 

The TallOne

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^ Read it.

Asking for clarification with regards to interest levels and conversations.

Unless I am totally blind, the Bible did not cover that specifically.
 

Mercenary

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Originally posted by The TallOne

Unless I am totally blind, the Bible did not cover that specifically.
pages 30-34 of the pdf...
 

#1 P.I.M.P.

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Dude just go with it, try to find out as much about her as u can. If she's intrested It not given that she would ask alot of questions. It depends on her type, If she's asertive she may ask questions which can be bothersome at time when she ask too much and imposes, the one doing the asking is usually in the higher position a that wher I usually prefer to be. If she's the submissive type, that's where she'll be, the most the will do is be around or say hi and come uo close to you as for you to interview he so to speak. Go about as if your an employer and this chick is applying for your job, try to find out as much as you can, employers often ask alot of personal question, so copy that style and you'll be fine, as she warms up to youshe'll start asking u questions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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