"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you keep a conversation going without making it sound like you're fetching for things to talk about or relate to?


When I am around men and there is a silence, they seem ok with it. However, when I'm with a woman (or more than one woman), they seem to get fidgety and uncomfortable when there isn't dialogue going on. (ex. I am eating dinner with a friend that's a girl, and neither of us can really talk when there is food in our mouths)


How do you relieve (or prevent) such awkward tension?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Perhaps another way to ask this would be, how do you make someone truly comfortable to be around you, whether you're talking with a man, or woman?


I am thinking it has something to do with leadership capabilities.... but not sure what that exactly entails........
 
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Practice. That's all it takes.

Multi-threading conversation is what you want to do as well. Make an observation about something, and talk about it, and let it segway into something else. This is how I steer conversations towards sex and women's bicurious tendencies.

Sometimes a girl will be nervous though, and will be too shy to talk. In that case, call her out on it, and/or convey that you're not going to judge her. This is one of those times that it's okay to be a "nice guy", is when the girl is shy and thinks you're super hot and intimidating.
 
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