"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Myself and this girl arranged to go out tommorow for a few hours. We arranged it 2 days ago. She changed her mind, and then changed it again lol...heres the conversation (text messages)

Me: Hey numnuts we still ok for tomorrow?

Her: Nope iv changed my mind im doing something else. you'll have to do something else

Me: Ok then. hmm il just meet a random girl tomorrow and have her take me out somewhere :)

Her: Ok we can do something on the night, im going on holiday saturday for 2 weeks so you know xxx

I havent text her back yet, not sure whether to go out with her or not. Shes fun to be with, but seems to change her interest levels.

Your advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Huh? Are you serious?
Tell her to go fvck herself. Basically she breaks a date but says you can meet up later so she can get some sex before she leaves?
Actually tell her you're on and then cancel when she's waiting for you.
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
^^ screw that.

She sounds cool to me. You're just setting the tone for her behaviour. Call her "numbnuts" and she'll come right back at you. No problem there; she's just dishing it back. If your "text" thing actually went down like that, then she's very into you. She folded pretty quick.

Just tell her what you have planned and when she should be ready to go.
You're right, I missunderstood the original posting. I thought they were meeting for a something longer, she cancelled and then offered to meet him just for a little.
Ignore my reply.
 
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