"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Myself and this girl arranged to go out tommorow for a few hours. We arranged it 2 days ago. She changed her mind, and then changed it again lol...heres the conversation (text messages)

Me: Hey numnuts we still ok for tomorrow?

Her: Nope iv changed my mind im doing something else. you'll have to do something else

Me: Ok then. hmm il just meet a random girl tomorrow and have her take me out somewhere :)

Her: Ok we can do something on the night, im going on holiday saturday for 2 weeks so you know xxx

I havent text her back yet, not sure whether to go out with her or not. Shes fun to be with, but seems to change her interest levels.

Your advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Huh? Are you serious?
Tell her to go fvck herself. Basically she breaks a date but says you can meet up later so she can get some sex before she leaves?
Actually tell her you're on and then cancel when she's waiting for you.
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
^^ screw that.

She sounds cool to me. You're just setting the tone for her behaviour. Call her "numbnuts" and she'll come right back at you. No problem there; she's just dishing it back. If your "text" thing actually went down like that, then she's very into you. She folded pretty quick.

Just tell her what you have planned and when she should be ready to go.
You're right, I missunderstood the original posting. I thought they were meeting for a something longer, she cancelled and then offered to meet him just for a little.
Ignore my reply.
 
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