Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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conversation, what do you think?

check_mate_kid_uk

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On sosuave, the advice that has always gone around is that you should ask a lot of questions about the girl and let her do the talking. This seemed very resonable to me at the time.

I recenlty read the mystery method, it said that you should do much of the talking, whilst you allow the girl to talk, you do not ask her questions about her self during the initital aproach because it is a huge indicator of interest showing that you are trying to get with her, which you do not want to do. When you do the talking it also gives you control and shows confidence allowing you to demonstrate higher value to the girl.

After reading the mystery method, mysterys advice seems much better to me then what has been going around on sosuave.

What do you think about this? What are your experinces?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you like to talk about lots of dumb topics, she stroked my hand does she like me? you complain about newbie posts yet post dozens do replys to them.

Here i am trying to start a disccusion about the most important part to aproaching a girl, how you talk to her, and yet no one seems to want to input because your worried that maybe smothing good will come up and threaten the way you do things right now.
 

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If the chicks is into you in any way she will talk,its very rare that they don't.
Quick Rules for Conversatoins
1. Back Straight
2. Dont stutter
3. No "uh,well uh",makes you look weak
4. EYE CONTACT(MOST IMPORTANT)
5. If she says something along the lines of "oh yeah I was at the Rage yesterday" respond with "No way? I used to go there all the time" now she could ask a million questions or comment about it.
6. Bust Balls in conversation,basically be a azs and sarcastic
 

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Originally posted by blinkwatt
If the chicks is into you in any way she will talk,its very rare that they don't.
Quick Rules for Conversatoins
1. Back Straight
2. Dont stutter
3. No "uh,well uh",makes you look weak
4. EYE CONTACT(MOST IMPORTANT)
5. If she says something along the lines of "oh yeah I was at the Rage yesterday" respond with "No way? I used to go there all the time" now she could ask a million questions or comment about it.
6. Bust Balls in conversation,basically be a azs and sarcastic
that is all very true, but the point it, do you do the talking, or do you just ask questions!

I think you should lead the conversation and do not ask her about her self for quiet a while. What do you think?
 
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