"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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On sosuave, the advice that has always gone around is that you should ask a lot of questions about the girl and let her do the talking. This seemed very resonable to me at the time.

I recenlty read the mystery method, it said that you should do much of the talking, whilst you allow the girl to talk, you do not ask her questions about her self during the initital aproach because it is a huge indicator of interest showing that you are trying to get with her, which you do not want to do. When you do the talking it also gives you control and shows confidence allowing you to demonstrate higher value to the girl.

After reading the mystery method, mysterys advice seems much better to me then what has been going around on sosuave.

What do you think about this? What are your experinces?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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you like to talk about lots of dumb topics, she stroked my hand does she like me? you complain about newbie posts yet post dozens do replys to them.

Here i am trying to start a disccusion about the most important part to aproaching a girl, how you talk to her, and yet no one seems to want to input because your worried that maybe smothing good will come up and threaten the way you do things right now.
 

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If the chicks is into you in any way she will talk,its very rare that they don't.
Quick Rules for Conversatoins
1. Back Straight
2. Dont stutter
3. No "uh,well uh",makes you look weak
4. EYE CONTACT(MOST IMPORTANT)
5. If she says something along the lines of "oh yeah I was at the Rage yesterday" respond with "No way? I used to go there all the time" now she could ask a million questions or comment about it.
6. Bust Balls in conversation,basically be a azs and sarcastic
 

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Originally posted by blinkwatt
If the chicks is into you in any way she will talk,its very rare that they don't.
Quick Rules for Conversatoins
1. Back Straight
2. Dont stutter
3. No "uh,well uh",makes you look weak
4. EYE CONTACT(MOST IMPORTANT)
5. If she says something along the lines of "oh yeah I was at the Rage yesterday" respond with "No way? I used to go there all the time" now she could ask a million questions or comment about it.
6. Bust Balls in conversation,basically be a azs and sarcastic
that is all very true, but the point it, do you do the talking, or do you just ask questions!

I think you should lead the conversation and do not ask her about her self for quiet a while. What do you think?
 
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