"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sjchris

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Alright guys I talked to this 8 in class the last month or so, and this last friday I met her after school at the mall. We got some coffee, walked around and talked. Then we went back to my house and chilled. I was teasing and flirting with her pretty good so I got her heated enough to make out with her. I pulled her bra off and sucked her breasts but when it came down to it she told me she "Wanted to wait a couple more dates to do it". Guess she felt like a slut. I was pretty cool about it, and when she asked me if I was mad I said no Im not. So I walked her out to her car and kissed her again then said goodbye.

So do you guys think I ****ed it up for myself, or do I still have a chance of it goin down?

If you think I do still have a chance then help me think of some conversation topics that are good for post-kissing stage and pre-sex stage. Thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Play youre cards right and you can get it.
 

MrS

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I think you're in with a pretty good shot.
Just don't be clingy/too eager, be cool.

Do what you were doing before, I don't think conversation topics change after making out.
Juts don't discuss the fact that pre marital sex cna be considered a sin and you're going to hell.

:D :D :D :D :D
 

jenzos

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u dont wanna do everything at once.

u want the the girl to want to see you more. no matter how much it pains u to do so.

yeah.
 

sjchris

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Thanks for the replies guys. I appreciate it a lot. peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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