"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sjchris

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Alright guys I talked to this 8 in class the last month or so, and this last friday I met her after school at the mall. We got some coffee, walked around and talked. Then we went back to my house and chilled. I was teasing and flirting with her pretty good so I got her heated enough to make out with her. I pulled her bra off and sucked her breasts but when it came down to it she told me she "Wanted to wait a couple more dates to do it". Guess she felt like a slut. I was pretty cool about it, and when she asked me if I was mad I said no Im not. So I walked her out to her car and kissed her again then said goodbye.

So do you guys think I ****ed it up for myself, or do I still have a chance of it goin down?

If you think I do still have a chance then help me think of some conversation topics that are good for post-kissing stage and pre-sex stage. Thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Play youre cards right and you can get it.
 

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I think you're in with a pretty good shot.
Just don't be clingy/too eager, be cool.

Do what you were doing before, I don't think conversation topics change after making out.
Juts don't discuss the fact that pre marital sex cna be considered a sin and you're going to hell.

:D :D :D :D :D
 

jenzos

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u dont wanna do everything at once.

u want the the girl to want to see you more. no matter how much it pains u to do so.

yeah.
 

sjchris

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Thanks for the replies guys. I appreciate it a lot. peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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