“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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parkthebus

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So I went to a club and bar (good one rather than a regulars spot) for the first time last night. Noticed a girl smiling at me across the bar so I went over and spoke to her. Conversation wasn't awkard or anything but wasn't exactly flowing either. Have you got any go to topics or lines that you use to break the ice?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good conversation starter if you can't think of anything else is "How did you find out about this place and how did you get here?" That usually gets the ball rolling, it will also let you know if she is there with someone else so you don't waste too much time with a chick who is taken. If she likes you then you really don't have to worry about carrying a conversation. She's going to do some of the lifting. If you find yourself having to work to hard to keep conversation flowing, then it typically means she is not interested enough to put any effort in. Best at that point to just move on.
 
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I like to get a girl to tell me about the ridiculous pick-up lines they hear and all the other things men do to embarrass themselves while trying to hit on her. That topic is a good one both in person and online.
 
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Small talk.

Keep it short and to the point. Throw in a few jokes here and there. You're just there to get a date or a number to set one up in the future. Don't linger there longer than a few minutes.
 
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EyeBRollin said:
Small talk.

Keep it short and to the point. Throw in a few jokes here and there. You're just there to get a date or a number to set one up in the future. Don't linger there longer than a few minutes.
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So he's in a club or a bar....and his objective is to get the number and bail....without the girl???? And he should dance down the street yelling 'I got the number! I got the number! Oh happy day!!!' CLUELESS.

Plan A is: to go for the lay. Kiss close, escalate, bounce.

Plan B: if logistics don't permit plan A, get the number, which is no more than a time bridge....then back to plan A.

@parkthebus : look up Bobby Río Conversational Escalation. Good tips on Conversational hooks and threads.
 
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