“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Freddy1

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I'm interested in this girl who works at a women clothing store. Does anyone have any good opening lines one can use. Its abit odd for a guy to just walk into a women's store. :whistle:

Any good openers for when you notice a girl and both of you waiting for the street light to change?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Freddy1 said:
I'm interested in this girl who works at a women clothing store. Does anyone have any good opening lines one can use. Its abit odd for a guy to just walk into a women's store. :whistle:

Any good openers for when you notice a girl and both of you waiting for the street light to change?

Can open the girl in the shop with anything......Best is. You want to buy something for your little sisters birthday but you are not sure what.....Slowly....take it off her sales pitch and into a personal convo. What would you wear out of them on a night out?


As for waiting on the lights....that kinda approach is not my forte so i wouldnt know.....intrested thow.

Sarge On!
 

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An idea for the stoplight: If her window is up, wave or make some kind of movement to get her attention, then smile, and motion her to lower her window. Say something funny, like "Come here often?". Just because its such a strange place to pick up a girl, it might come across well, as long as you laugh about it as you say it.

Really, you'd have to be majorly skilled, or just lucky, to pick up a girl at a stoplight. There's just too few precious seconds, and an average # close takes at least a minute. Streetlights change in less time than that. Maybe you could break up the convo with a series of lights? But what if she turns in another direction? Sigh, too many problems.

Just try anything, you never know what could happen.
 

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The stoplight can be done! I have done it and ended up at these sluts house 45 minutes later. Ok all you have to do is have your window down,give them the smirk and say "Hey whats your name?",thats it. Take it from there,go maybe one or two stoplights,# close then get out of there. It is dangerous to do this unless you have a passenger who is keeping his eyes on the road.

I think I might try the "come here often". I bet this will get some laughs.

It helps if you drive a nice car, or a convertible. Make sure your car is washed no matter what it is.

Let me know how this goes.
 

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It helps if you drive a nice car, or a convertible. Make sure your car is washed no matter what it is.
I actually drive a black Honda s0000 (convertable) and yes, it can be done. One Friday night me and a friend were crusin around and I pulled up next to 2 girls at a stoplight and the conversation went something like this:

(her windows were already down)
Me: You couldn't find anything better to do on a Friday night?
Her: haha, looks who's talking
Me: Your car looks like a black person's car!
Her: What! It does?!
**The light turns green**
Me: Hey, pull into WalMart!

I didn't think she would, but she follows me into the Wal-Mart parking lot, we chit-chat for a bit, exchange names etc... It turns out she was like 8 years older that me and not really quite as hot as I prefer, plus she was on her way home, so we both parted.

So yeah, if you have a hot car it's a piece of cake. I get people yelling at me from across the highway saying stuff like "Hey! What are you doing tonight!?", so yeah, when at a light, it's a piece of cake.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol... just curious, what does a black person's car look like?
 

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This is pretty interesting actually. The whole idea is just so unusual. I think the stoplight pickup (official name from now on, lol) works because it is out of the ordinary. How often do you talk to the person in the car next to you, you know? It allows for easy openers, since the situation is so unique. Comment on her car, challenge her to a race, ask if she saw the a$$hole that cut everyone off a little ways back. Pretty simple. And if she isn't into it, or you're bombing, you both have just about the easiest out there is: Just drive off.
 

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Tomatoes said:
Can open the girl in the shop with anything......Best is. You want to buy something for your little sisters birthday but you are not sure what.....Slowly....take it off her sales pitch and into a personal convo. What would you wear out of them on a night out?
Sarge On!
"little sisters birthday"
What if its a women store (not a little girls store)? It still feel sort of odd for a guy to walk in. If you know what I mean.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
... Comment on her car, challenge her to a race, ask if she saw the a$$hole that cut everyone off a little ways back. Pretty simple. ..
Those are some terrific ideals!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The stop light pickups are were I shine,I have no clue why. If I'm out I would only get approached by hb7-8s,but in the car there is no limit. Maybe its because I drive a Porsche Boxster? I was off work at midnight a few weeks back and pulled up to a light. This person, I had no clue who it was because her window wasn't down was trying to get my attention,I thought "weirdo" as it was past midnight. She pulls up to me at the next light and rolls her window down and says, "Hey there,nice car" and stared at me waiting for me to say something. Man she was such a babe I should have talked to her,but I have my priorities straight and was on my way to the gym. I responded with "thanks" blow her a kiss and hit my onramp,it was sweet. Im such a tease.
 
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