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[Freddy1]

I'm interested in this girl who works at a women clothing store. Does anyone have any good opening lines one can use. Its abit odd for a guy to just walk into a women's store.

Any good openers for when you notice a girl and both of you waiting for the street light to change?

 

[Tomatoes]

I'm interested in this girl who works at a women clothing store. Does anyone have any good opening lines one can use. Its abit odd for a guy to just walk into a women's store.

Any good openers for when you notice a girl and both of you waiting for the street light to change?

Can open the girl in the shop with anything......Best is. You want to buy something for your little sisters birthday but you are not sure what.....Slowly....take it off her sales pitch and into a personal convo. What would you wear out of them on a night out?


As for waiting on the lights....that kinda approach is not my forte so i wouldnt know.....intrested thow.

Sarge On!

 

[Ace of Flames]

An idea for the stoplight: If her window is up, wave or make some kind of movement to get her attention, then smile, and motion her to lower her window. Say something funny, like "Come here often?". Just because its such a strange place to pick up a girl, it might come across well, as long as you laugh about it as you say it.

Really, you'd have to be majorly skilled, or just lucky, to pick up a girl at a stoplight. There's just too few precious seconds, and an average # close takes at least a minute. Streetlights change in less time than that. Maybe you could break up the convo with a series of lights? But what if she turns in another direction? Sigh, too many problems.

Just try anything, you never know what could happen.

 

[blinkwatt]

The stoplight can be done! I have done it and ended up at these sluts house 45 minutes later. Ok all you have to do is have your window down,give them the smirk and say "Hey whats your name?",thats it. Take it from there,go maybe one or two stoplights,# close then get out of there. It is dangerous to do this unless you have a passenger who is keeping his eyes on the road.

I think I might try the "come here often". I bet this will get some laughs.

It helps if you drive a nice car, or a convertible. Make sure your car is washed no matter what it is.

Let me know how this goes.

 

[skinnydart]

It helps if you drive a nice car, or a convertible. Make sure your car is washed no matter what it is.

I actually drive a black Honda s0000 (convertable) and yes, it can be done. One Friday night me and a friend were crusin around and I pulled up next to 2 girls at a stoplight and the conversation went something like this:

(her windows were already down)
Me: You couldn't find anything better to do on a Friday night?
Her: haha, looks who's talking
Me: Your car looks like a black person's car!
Her: What! It does?!
**The light turns green**
Me: Hey, pull into WalMart!

I didn't think she would, but she follows me into the Wal-Mart parking lot, we chit-chat for a bit, exchange names etc... It turns out she was like 8 years older that me and not really quite as hot as I prefer, plus she was on her way home, so we both parted.

So yeah, if you have a hot car it's a piece of cake. I get people yelling at me from across the highway saying stuff like "Hey! What are you doing tonight!?", so yeah, when at a light, it's a piece of cake.

 

[Randomer]

lol... just curious, what does a black person's car look like?

 

[Ace of Flames]

This is pretty interesting actually. The whole idea is just so unusual. I think the stoplight pickup (official name from now on, lol) works because it is out of the ordinary. How often do you talk to the person in the car next to you, you know? It allows for easy openers, since the situation is so unique. Comment on her car, challenge her to a race, ask if she saw the a$$hole that cut everyone off a little ways back. Pretty simple. And if she isn't into it, or you're bombing, you both have just about the easiest out there is: Just drive off.

 

[Freddy1]

Can open the girl in the shop with anything......Best is. You want to buy something for your little sisters birthday but you are not sure what.....Slowly....take it off her sales pitch and into a personal convo. What would you wear out of them on a night out?
Sarge On!

"little sisters birthday"
What if its a women store (not a little girls store)? It still feel sort of odd for a guy to walk in. If you know what I mean.

 

[Freddy1]

... Comment on her car, challenge her to a race, ask if she saw the a$$hole that cut everyone off a little ways back. Pretty simple. ..

Those are some terrific ideals!

 

[Ace of Flames]

Those are some terrific ideas!

I try.

 

[blinkwatt]

The stop light pickups are were I shine,I have no clue why. If I'm out I would only get approached by hb7-8s,but in the car there is no limit. Maybe its because I drive a Porsche Boxster? I was off work at midnight a few weeks back and pulled up to a light. This person, I had no clue who it was because her window wasn't down was trying to get my attention,I thought "weirdo" as it was past midnight. She pulls up to me at the next light and rolls her window down and says, "Hey there,nice car" and stared at me waiting for me to say something. Man she was such a babe I should have talked to her,but I have my priorities straight and was on my way to the gym. I responded with "thanks" blow her a kiss and hit my onramp,it was sweet. Im such a tease.