"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BlackDragon

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Ok, I am able to start a conversation with girls and keep it going. Its really easy once you get the use of it. But I have one problem though. When I start a conversation, its like girls explode. They keep talking and dont stop till I say I have to go. Usually I would say a couple of things but mostly just "yeah", "i know whatcha mean" and nods. Halfway through the conversation I fell like running away or somthing. I think I have some kind of social anxiety. I liked being a loner back in highschool, but ever since I gave up playing videogames so much and going to college, I want to meet new people and get laid. Its going to be hard to break out of this shell :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thraxeh

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yes, theres some ppl who find it hard to start a convo, and keep it going. finding girls who can talk for hrs is almost a good thing unless you want to talk as well.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Originally posted by BlackDragon
Ok, I am able to start a conversation with girls and keep it going. Its really easy once you get the use of it. But I have one problem though. When I start a conversation, its like girls explode. They keep talking and dont stop till I say I have to go. Usually I would say a couple of things but mostly just "yeah", "i know whatcha mean" and nods. Halfway through the conversation I fell like running away or somthing. I think I have some kind of social anxiety. I liked being a loner back in highschool, but ever since I gave up playing videogames so much and going to college, I want to meet new people and get laid. Its going to be hard to break out of this shell :/
lol at everyone thinking the slighetst problem is "social-anxiety" This is why i despise shrinks and doctors.

Anyway.hoes just talk alot this isn't a problem..this is actually a good thing for you,dogg.
 
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