masteralios
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tell us about ur best conversation openers in any situtation
all help is highly appreciated guys
all help is highly appreciated guys
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
conversation openers
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kineti[C]harm
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Hi
captn caveman
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Hi
With a nod of your head moving up.
With a nod of your head moving up.
squirrels
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Completely dependent on the situation. With "hi" as a reasonable fallback. 
louis
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I started another thread on this called 'Favourite conversation starters' here -
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=47132
Regarding 'hi', that's fine, but it's what you say next that's important. There's no point in saying 'hi' for it to end up like this -
Man: hi
Woman: hi
Man: er - yes - um - 'bye (looks embarrassed)
Woman: 'bye
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=47132
Regarding 'hi', that's fine, but it's what you say next that's important. There's no point in saying 'hi' for it to end up like this -
Man: hi
Woman: hi
Man: er - yes - um - 'bye (looks embarrassed)
Woman: 'bye
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.