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Master Don Juan
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Yes, this is true.Yes most people these days lack social skills and are borderline autistic.
I have examples of this from my friend's wives.
One male friend has a wife. They met in college circa 2010. Circa 2010, in her early 20s peak, I would have rated her a 7. I first met her in 2011. At one point in the 2nd half of the 2010s, she claimed that no man had ever hit on her in a grocery store. Neither my friend nor I actually believed her claim. The more likely instance is that she got approached in a grocery store, but was so socially inept that she couldn't figure out that it was an actual approach. It's likely that some guy started a conversation with her in a grocery store, but since he wasn't a Top 20% guy and she already had a boyfriend, he was probably invisible to her and conversation didn't even last one minute. While this woman was borderline cute/hot (around a 7) when we met in 2011, by 2015 her looks were declining. This is because she wasn't an exercise enthusiast. It's a shame that she showed looks-based declines by her late 20s. In the last few years, she would have rated above a 5-5.5. A 5.5 would have been a very generous rating 18-24 months ago.
A male acquaintance got together with a female from the general social circle. This female was some co-worker to a few guys in the general social circle/sphere. I had my eye on this woman as I had seen her on Facebook posts (remember this is the early to mid 2010s). I saw her at a party and when I approached, she had such an off putting vibe for no reason, demonstrating a lack of social skills and borderline autist behavior. When I described this incident to a different male friend (not the one mentioned in previous block of text), he indicated that he had tried to converse with her before and got a similar vibe. Anyway, so one of our mutual acquaintances got with her. That guy is taller and better looking than both of us, but I'm not bad looking myself. That taller, better looking acquaintance didn't win a special prize with this girl. Even at her peak, she was only maybe mid-tier cute (6-6.5). If I had gotten her on a date, it would not have worked out because I've heard she's quite sexually frigid and doesn't put out quickly. She probably would have gotten pissed with my attempts to escalate had she not been so autistic in our initial interaction. I still don't like ever seeing her at broader social circle gatherings. Fortunately, I don't see her more than 1-2 times a year in person.
There's another acquaintance with a wife who is thin, has a mediocre face, and has an advanced level degree. Her social skills are borderline autistic too. None of the men in the social circle have ever said one positive word about her. She was already the girlfriend of that acquaintance by the time she got introduced to everyone, so none of the males in the social circle ever made a play on her.
I've had the experience of approaching women in various daygame venues and it was apparent that they couldn't process what was going on and didn't know how to respond to it. This was happening as far back as points in the 2010s well before the pandemic was a thing.Yep. It's at the point where cold approaching a woman turns awkward because the woman just flat out doesn't know how to respond to it anymore. I've had much success back in the early to mid 2000s cold approaching. Now it's not the norm.