"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJatNewYork

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Little BACKGROUND, so you don't get lost.

I went out with this girl once, and we had a blast, tons of kino. The day BEFORE we were suppose to go out, she got in trouble with cops (alcohol) and she was grounded by her parents.

She texted me after we flirted/played around at work today... lots of touchy touchy.

She texts me every 1-2 days. (I never initiate ;) ) Great personality. I love to hang out with her.

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Girl: Hey you know that I can really beat you up. I was just being nice.

Me: Haha OK. How about we meet and settle this, if you aren't scared? ;)

Girl: Oh! I'm shakin haha.

Me: Wait until I see you next time. How about I workout/beat you up tomorrow at 11am?

Girl: Oh I cant. I'm gonna have to cover for someone (TRUE) but how about I beg and beg my parents if they let me hangout for a while after night school and I'll call you if they let me.

Me: Sounds like a plan, if it doesn't work, threaten to run away :)

Girl: Yeah right, cross your fingers. (Sh!t test to see if I am desperate?)

Me: No, it goes numb and starts to hurt. No big deal if we can't hang out.

Girl: Haha your funny. Yeah well, I hope that they (Her parents) say yes, because I still feel bad plus your fun to hang out with.

Me: Ditto. Well, I gotta go and get my beauty sleep :) I'll see ya tomorrow, wet dreams >: )
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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