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Yup.Robert28 said::crackup: :rock:
:yes: :rockon: :trouble:
there, happy?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yup.Robert28 said::crackup: :rock:
:yes: :rockon: :trouble:
there, happy?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Robyn923b said:It is very sad and disappointing to hear how prejudiced some of you are. Who gives a flying fvck if some white girl is dating a black guy or vice versa. That is none of your business. By the way, white women date men of color because they have enough of white men's manginaness. Men of color--on average--tend to be more aggressive, assertive, and overall approach more women than white men (all non PUA's/DJ's). So don't take out your frustration on men of color because your white girl craves some brown sugar.
This is the Black dude that you DO know about.
Civilized, are you serious!? Does that mean that all other blacks are savages?
Wow, talk about the king of prejudice.
Keyword: ANYTHING, which suggests that people who aren't white aren't even people, but more like THINGS in your view. And they say racism is almost over? Duuude, please...
Amen! In California Latinos are ALREADY the majority and Whites are a minority. There are many things that Latinos and Blacks have to offer White women that White men don't have and will never understand.
Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)![]()
The irony of your post after quoting Robyn's post is all too plain to see. :crackup:garruk said:The first post i agree with in this thread!
All this prejudice that the rest of you guys have.. you can do all you want to justify it.. but at the end of the day: you're hurting yourself just as much as youre hurting society.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I was thinking the same thing. look, everyone's not going to agree with everyone. it's just the way it is. I get hit on by plenty of HOT black women, I'm flattered by it actually. doesn't mean I'd ever date them though but I do flirt with them right back and be just as nice as I can be to them. wonder what THEIR reasons are for chasing after honkey's like myself? could be they're tired of black men's b.s. just like some white women are tired of white guy's b.s.perseverance said:The irony of your post after quoting Robyn's post is all too plain to see. :crackup:
Why does there always have to be a reason for women of the opposite sex to hit on a member of a different race?! Thats the point of my posts, really. If youre good looking, carry yourself as a confident individual and the works, all women will be interested in you. Doesn't have to be "oh shes tired of white guys, or shes tired of asian guys." Or even "oh she has daddy issues or shes getting revenge on her white ex-bf." In this day and age most men go after pvssy of all colors and so do women.Robert28 said:I was thinking the same thing. look, everyone's not going to agree with everyone. it's just the way it is. I get hit on by plenty of HOT black women, I'm flattered by it actually. doesn't mean I'd ever date them though but I do flirt with them right back and be just as nice as I can be to them. wonder what THEIR reasons are for chasing after honkey's like myself? could be they're tired of black men's b.s. just like some white women are tired of white guy's b.s.
I don't ever get hit on by asian women or many latino women though, which is fine because I don't date anything but white women anyways. what I don't understand is all this crap of jumping on someone simply because they don't date the same type of girls you, or society tells you to date. Society says it's ok to be gay too, doesn't mean i'm going to run out and become a fag tomorrow. if someone wants to be gay that's fine, if they want to date opposite races, fine too. no problem with any of that, but don't tell me that i have to do it too. that's when you'll catch hell, telling me i HAVE to do something.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thatfeel21 said:Why does there always have to be a reason for women of the opposite sex to hit on a member of a different race?! Thats the point of my posts, really. If youre good looking, carry yourself as a confident individual and the works, all women will be interested in you. Doesn't have to be "oh shes tired of white guys, or shes tired of asian guys." Or even "oh she has daddy issues or shes getting revenge on her white ex-bf." In this day and age most men go after pvssy of all colors and so do women.
Says a lot about yourself as you "believe in fairness and equality" though it seems not when it comes to a black guy.morepoonplease said:I really don't have much to say other than the fact that after I found out my ex hooked up with a black guy before me things were never the same and have ended after 6 mos of bs... I like to think I believe in fairness and equality but something about the mother of my children hooking up a black guy nerves me... Not like I asked her or anything she brought it up stupid tramp.
You must of missed my 1st post in this thread, or wait I wasn't clear I am not white, now read my 1st post in the thread.snowdog said:Man, still so many silly discussions going on here. I used to partake in these kinds of threads. Come on guys, get real. This is stupid.
And how come I haven't read any funny racist jokes here yet? That's always the only good thing that comes out of threads like these.
Don't know why you felt the need to quote my post as I said nothing about your girl cheating on you. I do think you have some issues you could use some professional help to deal with(I'm not referring to your preference to only date white women).Robert28 said:you're 31 and watch MTV? really?
If my girl cheated on me I wouldn't give a d*mn if it was some thug on the street or a white preacher, she'd be gone.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.