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Yup.Robert28 said::crackup: :rock:
:yes: :rockon: :trouble:
there, happy?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yup.Robert28 said::crackup: :rock:
:yes: :rockon: :trouble:
there, happy?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Robyn923b said:It is very sad and disappointing to hear how prejudiced some of you are. Who gives a flying fvck if some white girl is dating a black guy or vice versa. That is none of your business. By the way, white women date men of color because they have enough of white men's manginaness. Men of color--on average--tend to be more aggressive, assertive, and overall approach more women than white men (all non PUA's/DJ's). So don't take out your frustration on men of color because your white girl craves some brown sugar.
This is the Black dude that you DO know about.
Civilized, are you serious!? Does that mean that all other blacks are savages?
Wow, talk about the king of prejudice.
Keyword: ANYTHING, which suggests that people who aren't white aren't even people, but more like THINGS in your view. And they say racism is almost over? Duuude, please...
Amen! In California Latinos are ALREADY the majority and Whites are a minority. There are many things that Latinos and Blacks have to offer White women that White men don't have and will never understand.
Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)![]()
The irony of your post after quoting Robyn's post is all too plain to see. :crackup:garruk said:The first post i agree with in this thread!
All this prejudice that the rest of you guys have.. you can do all you want to justify it.. but at the end of the day: you're hurting yourself just as much as youre hurting society.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I was thinking the same thing. look, everyone's not going to agree with everyone. it's just the way it is. I get hit on by plenty of HOT black women, I'm flattered by it actually. doesn't mean I'd ever date them though but I do flirt with them right back and be just as nice as I can be to them. wonder what THEIR reasons are for chasing after honkey's like myself? could be they're tired of black men's b.s. just like some white women are tired of white guy's b.s.perseverance said:The irony of your post after quoting Robyn's post is all too plain to see. :crackup:
Why does there always have to be a reason for women of the opposite sex to hit on a member of a different race?! Thats the point of my posts, really. If youre good looking, carry yourself as a confident individual and the works, all women will be interested in you. Doesn't have to be "oh shes tired of white guys, or shes tired of asian guys." Or even "oh she has daddy issues or shes getting revenge on her white ex-bf." In this day and age most men go after pvssy of all colors and so do women.Robert28 said:I was thinking the same thing. look, everyone's not going to agree with everyone. it's just the way it is. I get hit on by plenty of HOT black women, I'm flattered by it actually. doesn't mean I'd ever date them though but I do flirt with them right back and be just as nice as I can be to them. wonder what THEIR reasons are for chasing after honkey's like myself? could be they're tired of black men's b.s. just like some white women are tired of white guy's b.s.
I don't ever get hit on by asian women or many latino women though, which is fine because I don't date anything but white women anyways. what I don't understand is all this crap of jumping on someone simply because they don't date the same type of girls you, or society tells you to date. Society says it's ok to be gay too, doesn't mean i'm going to run out and become a fag tomorrow. if someone wants to be gay that's fine, if they want to date opposite races, fine too. no problem with any of that, but don't tell me that i have to do it too. that's when you'll catch hell, telling me i HAVE to do something.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thatfeel21 said:Why does there always have to be a reason for women of the opposite sex to hit on a member of a different race?! Thats the point of my posts, really. If youre good looking, carry yourself as a confident individual and the works, all women will be interested in you. Doesn't have to be "oh shes tired of white guys, or shes tired of asian guys." Or even "oh she has daddy issues or shes getting revenge on her white ex-bf." In this day and age most men go after pvssy of all colors and so do women.
Says a lot about yourself as you "believe in fairness and equality" though it seems not when it comes to a black guy.morepoonplease said:I really don't have much to say other than the fact that after I found out my ex hooked up with a black guy before me things were never the same and have ended after 6 mos of bs... I like to think I believe in fairness and equality but something about the mother of my children hooking up a black guy nerves me... Not like I asked her or anything she brought it up stupid tramp.
You must of missed my 1st post in this thread, or wait I wasn't clear I am not white, now read my 1st post in the thread.snowdog said:Man, still so many silly discussions going on here. I used to partake in these kinds of threads. Come on guys, get real. This is stupid.
And how come I haven't read any funny racist jokes here yet? That's always the only good thing that comes out of threads like these.
Don't know why you felt the need to quote my post as I said nothing about your girl cheating on you. I do think you have some issues you could use some professional help to deal with(I'm not referring to your preference to only date white women).Robert28 said:you're 31 and watch MTV? really?
If my girl cheated on me I wouldn't give a d*mn if it was some thug on the street or a white preacher, she'd be gone.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.