Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maybe depends on where you have grown up or what your used to. Im a latin guy but ive dated and messed around with more white females than any other race. I see mixed race couples all the time, then again ive grown up all my life in NYC so you see all kinda of different mixes.TonyBaloney said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Robert28 said:
Moron is one who calls another man moron while failing to see his own stupidity, prejudice, and ignorance (not limited to your writing skills).Robert28 said:
lmao , I like this guy ^^^perseverance said:
I find those who do not understand things eve more annoying. People are entitled to date whomever they want--the problem is these guys caring about who other people date or who their current partners have dated--say whatever you want, that is simply wrong.:box:perseverance said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
On the same token, what business is it of yours? You can't accuse people of caring about someone else's dating preferences and then proceed to do the same thing they are doing, that's wrong too, that's called hypocrisy.Robyn923b said:
Do black men approach and fvck more women than white men? Yes, by far. Now apply the rule that anyone with more than 10 lifetime partners likely picked up a STD. More lifetime partners, more STDs. Therefore, women who ever had sex with a black man are far more likely to have contracted a STD from their highly promiscuous black partners than are women who had sex only with less promiscuous non-black partners. Additionally, a woman who admits to having had sex with a black man is much more likely to be concealing having had sex with other black men as well (since women generally conceal promiscuity, and admit only what they are already reputed to have done). Therefore, all men should avoid like the plague any woman who ever had sex with a black man. Paradoxically, this means that a black man should avoid any woman who ever before had sex with a black man. Once she spreads for one black man, she'll spread for others -- even if only to get revenge on her philandering boyfriend. So it's kinda hopeless for black men. Their reputation is just too bad.Robyn923b said:
The explanation is in the history of white-black relationships in the New World -- primarily their race to the bottom for ever-worsening wages and working conditions. For whites to call blacks "savages" or whatever is just an expression of fear and disgust over the decline in broader social and cultural conditions. Whites fear that they or their children will someday be living under conditions that are now the current living conditions for blacks.Robyn923b said:
"You don't understand" is a cheap debaters' trick. The only thing that blacks have to offer is sweat that is somewhat more acrid due to having more ammonia than the sweat of whites.Robyn923b said:
If black men have bigger d1cks, what does that say about the vaginas of black women? The body construction is so different that many white men simply do not feel any sexual attraction to black women. As far as the manhood part, it's liberal paternalism to say that the poor, poor colored people are somehow "better" at tap dancing or shoe shining or any other personal service. By the way, how are the poor, poor colored people doing on SATs? Aww, gee whiz, don't get all limp over it. My ex's cheezy fish needs a shine.Robyn923b said:Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)
:rockon:You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Of all the interesting posts in this thread this is the one I share the most, if I may add I have somehow the impression that some white girls date black guys for the sole purpose of pissing off someone wheter is her father or a not well identified "wrong society".Mike32ct said:
Robyn923b said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
what most people fail to comprehend is that NOT every white guy is a redneck, preppy, racist, cracka. I'm a well educated white man and smile everytime someone refers to me as a racist because I don't date black women, or white women that date black guys.Thatfeel21 said:
What kind of evidence do you have to support this outrageous claim? You can't try and prove that your premise is based on any facts! How can you possibly prove that the average black man has more sex than the average white man? Arguments cannot be valid if even one premise is found to be incorrect. Or stupid. Nothing more than an opinionated 52 year old still living in the 60s.Down Low said:
But you'll date a white woman who has dated an asian man before? Or spanish perhaps?Robert28 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.