Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maybe depends on where you have grown up or what your used to. Im a latin guy but ive dated and messed around with more white females than any other race. I see mixed race couples all the time, then again ive grown up all my life in NYC so you see all kinda of different mixes.TonyBaloney said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Robert28 said:
Moron is one who calls another man moron while failing to see his own stupidity, prejudice, and ignorance (not limited to your writing skills).Robert28 said:
lmao , I like this guy ^^^perseverance said:
I find those who do not understand things eve more annoying. People are entitled to date whomever they want--the problem is these guys caring about who other people date or who their current partners have dated--say whatever you want, that is simply wrong.:box:perseverance said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
On the same token, what business is it of yours? You can't accuse people of caring about someone else's dating preferences and then proceed to do the same thing they are doing, that's wrong too, that's called hypocrisy.Robyn923b said:
Do black men approach and fvck more women than white men? Yes, by far. Now apply the rule that anyone with more than 10 lifetime partners likely picked up a STD. More lifetime partners, more STDs. Therefore, women who ever had sex with a black man are far more likely to have contracted a STD from their highly promiscuous black partners than are women who had sex only with less promiscuous non-black partners. Additionally, a woman who admits to having had sex with a black man is much more likely to be concealing having had sex with other black men as well (since women generally conceal promiscuity, and admit only what they are already reputed to have done). Therefore, all men should avoid like the plague any woman who ever had sex with a black man. Paradoxically, this means that a black man should avoid any woman who ever before had sex with a black man. Once she spreads for one black man, she'll spread for others -- even if only to get revenge on her philandering boyfriend. So it's kinda hopeless for black men. Their reputation is just too bad.Robyn923b said:
The explanation is in the history of white-black relationships in the New World -- primarily their race to the bottom for ever-worsening wages and working conditions. For whites to call blacks "savages" or whatever is just an expression of fear and disgust over the decline in broader social and cultural conditions. Whites fear that they or their children will someday be living under conditions that are now the current living conditions for blacks.Robyn923b said:
"You don't understand" is a cheap debaters' trick. The only thing that blacks have to offer is sweat that is somewhat more acrid due to having more ammonia than the sweat of whites.Robyn923b said:
If black men have bigger d1cks, what does that say about the vaginas of black women? The body construction is so different that many white men simply do not feel any sexual attraction to black women. As far as the manhood part, it's liberal paternalism to say that the poor, poor colored people are somehow "better" at tap dancing or shoe shining or any other personal service. By the way, how are the poor, poor colored people doing on SATs? Aww, gee whiz, don't get all limp over it. My ex's cheezy fish needs a shine.Robyn923b said:Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)
:rockon:Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Of all the interesting posts in this thread this is the one I share the most, if I may add I have somehow the impression that some white girls date black guys for the sole purpose of pissing off someone wheter is her father or a not well identified "wrong society".Mike32ct said:
Robyn923b said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what most people fail to comprehend is that NOT every white guy is a redneck, preppy, racist, cracka. I'm a well educated white man and smile everytime someone refers to me as a racist because I don't date black women, or white women that date black guys.Thatfeel21 said:
What kind of evidence do you have to support this outrageous claim? You can't try and prove that your premise is based on any facts! How can you possibly prove that the average black man has more sex than the average white man? Arguments cannot be valid if even one premise is found to be incorrect. Or stupid. Nothing more than an opinionated 52 year old still living in the 60s.Down Low said:
But you'll date a white woman who has dated an asian man before? Or spanish perhaps?Robert28 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.