“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Controlling your emotions with a HB plate.

spiegel549

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Every once in a while I will come across a broad that I meet that is just a dime in my book. Hot athletic body, big titz, big azz, and a really gorgeous face.

I'll pursue it just like I always do, approach confident, be smooth, be cool, and talk with my gift of gab. So I get there number, go out a few times, and we end up smashing.

My big problem is once I smash a plate that I am really really into my game/attitude changes. A regular 6 or 7 plate I am fine but when I get with one thats real hot in my eyes I turn into this needy girl where I find myself texting her just to hear from her, looking at my phone to see if she read the text already, or I send stupid **** via text like a photo just to get a reaction from her.

I am normally not like this. Its just these really hot ones that are rare, turn me into a big beta that I know I don't want to be ever again.

I need some guidance/tips on controlling it. Something that I can run through my head that will remind me to keep cool from start - finish.

Thanks Guys!
 

Bingo-Player

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its self control man

ive had to take 6 months out of the field to combat this and I'm just about getting there but the only way i can do it is by valuing myself way above any woman

it takes about 10 days of wrestling with your ego before that "oh **** i really need to hear from her" wears off

its a pain in the ass and will sometimes hurt like hell but you will eventually see through her looks and she's just another hoe ....then its her turn to start chasing

good luck
 

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All about self control. What I do is think about my mindset when I first got he girl, the mindset that attracted her from the start. Then act that way and stop thinking with my emotions/**** I just stay in control and relaxed. That is key.
 

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JohnChops said:
All about self control. What I do is think about my mindset when I first got he girl, the mindset that attracted her from the start. Then act that way and stop thinking with my emotions/**** I just stay in control and relaxed. That is key.
Just tried this one out. Pretty effective, at least for the moment. I'll see how it goes later and next time. OP should try this one too and let us know how it goes.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

JoeMarron

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The more you invest the more you catch feelings. All those cutesy little texts, even thinking about her is a form of investment. Also, just be a man and stop acting needy. You can feel emotions without acting on them. Hell there are plenty of times where I'm feeling needy. I may feel it but I don't act on it and eventually it passes. No one is holding a gun to your head demanding that you text her. Like the others said, it's all about self control.
 

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It's the same as smoking a cigarette, stop the urge, be a man and have self control, just don't text her all the time it's not that hard
 

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spiegel549 said:
Every once in a while I will come across a broad that I meet that is just a dime in my book. Hot athletic body, big titz, big azz, and a really gorgeous face.

I'll pursue it just like I always do, approach confident, be smooth, be cool, and talk with my gift of gab. So I get there number, go out a few times, and we end up smashing.

My big problem is once I smash a plate that I am really really into my game/attitude changes. A regular 6 or 7 plate I am fine but when I get with one thats real hot in my eyes I turn into this needy girl where I find myself texting her just to hear from her, looking at my phone to see if she read the text already, or I send stupid **** via text like a photo just to get a reaction from her.

I am normally not like this. Its just these really hot ones that are rare, turn me into a big beta that I know I don't want to be ever again.

I need some guidance/tips on controlling it. Something that I can run through my head that will remind me to keep cool from start - finish.

Thanks Guys!
I used to have this problem after smashing the hot ones too. But it amazes me how guys act alpha before having sex, and then beta once they have had the sex.

Bro you have to be in control. You are already having sex with her, what more do you want? Would you rather her be texting you and giving you smiling faces but no sex? The only thing you should be caring about is sleeping with her. If she gives up her body to you, she has to be much more worried than you about the relationship and where it's going.
 

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You know where it can potentially lead...enjoy it; destroy it.
 
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