"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Control de Birth?

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Okay, lemme give you guys the quick and derrrrty.

1.) Met chick last Friday(real HB8.5,nice personality, good potential) and I cold approach, game her, and get the #.

2.) Kicked it on Tuesday(pool date, kiss at end); Friday (she REALLY wanted to even though we had something set up for Sat. already) and yesterday (sat).

Soooo.....on fri, we where at her house and when she left the room my *ahem* detective ablilites uncovered birth control pills in her drawer, which isn't a problem.

BUT, On Sat (our third day kicking it) she's acting scary when I try to go in for the kill. Keep in mind she's saying she likes me calling etc......but i can't shake this feeling I'm being dealt the chump card here.

She doesn't appear slutty but still..........What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, another day, another no-go. She wants to kick it today but I'mma let her miss me a bit by not responding to texts, etc.....If wednesday is a no-go this will be an open and shut case.

P.S. I just wanna thank everyone for their invaluable insight and suggestions!
 

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Rex Man said:
P.S. I just wanna thank everyone for their invaluable insight and suggestions!
We want to thank you as well for being so clear as to what you were asking and for clearly identifying the problem!
 

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I think he's wondering why she isn't giving up the poon, when it's clear that she's having sex because of the birth control.

If this is the case, not all women use BC for the purpose of not getting pregnant. It also regulates their menstrual (sp). She might also have really bad PMS. BC could reduce the cramps.

Other than that... Not really sure what the hell you're asking.
 

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maybe it had something to do with going threw her drawer.....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Upon further review the call is overturned.....What I meant to ask was if anybody had been in a similiar situation. ALSO, how much time do you think is fair to give her b4 pulling out.

maybe it had something to do with going threw her drawer.....
You know, if she did know i went through her **** that could play a factor, but highly unlikey seeing as how i didn't really have to move stuff.
 

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Rex Man said:
Upon further review the call is overturned.....What I meant to ask was if anybody had been in a similiar situation. ALSO, how much time do you think is fair to give her b4 pulling out.



You know, if she did know i went through her **** that could play a factor, but highly unlikey seeing as how i didn't really have to move stuff.
I'm not really sure what the problem is. Maybe you're moving too fast? I've had a girl stop me in mid stroke and tell me that we shouldn't be doing this because we just met eachother. MID STROKE!!! Then the very next day, she's over to my house apologizing and ready to let me finish the job.

My advice. Find another plate who will take up some of your time. Put the other chick on the back burner. Take your time and be patient.
 

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azanon said:
We want to thank you as well for being so clear as to what you were asking and for clearly identifying the problem!
:crackup: That was funny... :p
 
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