"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Control de Birth?

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Okay, lemme give you guys the quick and derrrrty.

1.) Met chick last Friday(real HB8.5,nice personality, good potential) and I cold approach, game her, and get the #.

2.) Kicked it on Tuesday(pool date, kiss at end); Friday (she REALLY wanted to even though we had something set up for Sat. already) and yesterday (sat).

Soooo.....on fri, we where at her house and when she left the room my *ahem* detective ablilites uncovered birth control pills in her drawer, which isn't a problem.

BUT, On Sat (our third day kicking it) she's acting scary when I try to go in for the kill. Keep in mind she's saying she likes me calling etc......but i can't shake this feeling I'm being dealt the chump card here.

She doesn't appear slutty but still..........What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man

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Well, another day, another no-go. She wants to kick it today but I'mma let her miss me a bit by not responding to texts, etc.....If wednesday is a no-go this will be an open and shut case.

P.S. I just wanna thank everyone for their invaluable insight and suggestions!
 

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Rex Man said:
P.S. I just wanna thank everyone for their invaluable insight and suggestions!
We want to thank you as well for being so clear as to what you were asking and for clearly identifying the problem!
 

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I think he's wondering why she isn't giving up the poon, when it's clear that she's having sex because of the birth control.

If this is the case, not all women use BC for the purpose of not getting pregnant. It also regulates their menstrual (sp). She might also have really bad PMS. BC could reduce the cramps.

Other than that... Not really sure what the hell you're asking.
 

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maybe it had something to do with going threw her drawer.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Upon further review the call is overturned.....What I meant to ask was if anybody had been in a similiar situation. ALSO, how much time do you think is fair to give her b4 pulling out.

maybe it had something to do with going threw her drawer.....
You know, if she did know i went through her **** that could play a factor, but highly unlikey seeing as how i didn't really have to move stuff.
 

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Rex Man said:
Upon further review the call is overturned.....What I meant to ask was if anybody had been in a similiar situation. ALSO, how much time do you think is fair to give her b4 pulling out.



You know, if she did know i went through her **** that could play a factor, but highly unlikey seeing as how i didn't really have to move stuff.
I'm not really sure what the problem is. Maybe you're moving too fast? I've had a girl stop me in mid stroke and tell me that we shouldn't be doing this because we just met eachother. MID STROKE!!! Then the very next day, she's over to my house apologizing and ready to let me finish the job.

My advice. Find another plate who will take up some of your time. Put the other chick on the back burner. Take your time and be patient.
 

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azanon said:
We want to thank you as well for being so clear as to what you were asking and for clearly identifying the problem!
:crackup: That was funny... :p
 
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