"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Contradictions...

5uave

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Hi All,

So heres what happened...I go to a Halloween party a few weeks ago and I see this hb that works on the same floor as I do. So I approached. " Hey don't you work at "xxxxxxxx?" She says "yea". I asked What her name was, she tells me, shakes my hand and then turns her back on me to talk to her girl friends who she came with! So I'm standing there...thinking WOW what a biatch! so I walk away, went back to my crew and did our thing... dance with mad girls, drink, have fun, and laugh. My boys teasing me about how that girl blew me off. But watevers, no worries here.

So Monday comes along...and I see her coming out the door to go to the elevators and I coming from the elevator. She lookin good as usual and gives me this big smile and says "hi". All i did was say "hey" and kept walking!

So heres the contradiction on the DJ aspect...Should I forget about how she dissed me and start gamin her now? or should I act cool about it and leave it alone, because she was a biatch with a pretty face and I won't give in to her because of her looks?

Im not a bad looking guy, tall, dress well for work, plenty of friends, plenty of plates spinning going right now. I feel like I shouldn't let her get to me because then I'm letting my emotions come in play and that's not how i remembered being a DJ. I'm suppose to be cool and confident about myself so why would i let this girl get to me. Then again...I shouldnt let her dis me like that and then start gaming her now.

So do I or don't I start gaming? shes a 7.5 in my books.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DavenJuan

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5uave said:
Hi All,

So heres what happened...I go to a Halloween party a few weeks ago and I see this hb that works on the same floor as I do. So I approached. " Hey don't you work at "xxxxxxxx?" She says "yea". I asked What her name was, she tells me, shakes my hand and then turns her back on me to talk to her girl friends who she came with! So I'm standing there...thinking WOW what a biatch! so I walk away, went back to my crew and did our thing... dance with mad girls, drink, have fun, and laugh. My boys teasing me about how that girl blew me off. But watevers, no worries here.

So Monday comes along...and I see her coming out the door to go to the elevators and I coming from the elevator. She lookin good as usual and gives me this big smile and says "hi". All i did was say "hey" and kept walking!

So heres the contradiction on the DJ aspect...Should I forget about how she dissed me and start gamin her now? or should I act cool about it and leave it alone, because she was a biatch with a pretty face and I won't give in to her because of her looks?

Im not a bad looking guy, tall, dress well for work, plenty of friends, plenty of plates spinning going right now. I feel like I shouldn't let her get to me because then I'm letting my emotions come in play and that's not how i remembered being a DJ. I'm suppose to be cool and confident about myself so why would i let this girl get to me. Then again...I shouldnt let her dis me like that and then start gaming her now.

So do I or don't I start gaming? shes a 7.5 in my books.
her loss buddy..unfortunately she didnt wanna get on your ride...to bad she didnt know you were gonig to the sky!

keep those plates spinning..no ONE girl is worth gettin to you...and never take it personal..who knows why she blew you off
 

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Just completely ignore her and if she starts jumping though hoops, reward her. If youre spinning plates you already know this ;)
 
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