Contradiction

[tenzo]

Hello fellow dj's,

I'll cut right into the chase. When reading seduction guides, e-book or whatever I have found many contradictions in advice and ways. Some of them could be linked together after some thought. Some if presented with confidence would'nt matter anyway. But the one thing that is making me lose my mind, is the conversation bit:

- Most of the advice here about conversation is making it all about her or most of it and so on. And your conversation should be filled with questions.
But on the other hand;
- Juggler's method says that you should'nt ask questions and only talk in statements form and elicite your values. And the conversation should be all about you.

so which is right?

 

[tenzo]

one more thing

some say, when a HB enters a place you're in you should totally ignore her and act as if she's isn't even there, and other say you should right away notice her and give her your full attention, and the 3rd opinion says you should give her the most attention then take it back and so forth..

which do you think is more handy?

 

[satyriasis]

go into the field, test, and find whats best for YOU.

 

[Docs]

go into the field, test, and find whats best for YOU.

!

 

[tenzo]

This isn't a matter of trying and experimenting. and it isn't also a matter of personal style. because if it would've been like that, I would'nt post here and ask about it. Anyway thanks for your input.

but I'd like more input about speaking X listening - ignorance X attention.

 

[tenzo]

one more contradicted advice I've found is:
Some people here say you have to be very picky in case you want to be successful with women, and some say you have to bang every HB that comes in your way..

what's your input on this?

 

[Syren]

It depends where you are and what you want. If you are struggling to get to any point of seduction with women, then obviously you have a sticking point or two to get rid of. In that case the advice is to sleep with a lot of HB's to get your confidence up. The idea that you have to be picky means that you can disqualify women if they don't meet your standard. You will find a lot of MPUA's do this because they know they can have attractive women, they are int he market for attractive women who meet their standard.