Continuous texting

[Le killeur]

Has anyone ever experienced a plate or possible interest that continously texts you, even when you attempt to end the conversation with a finite answer etc? Also if i simply ignore her text which has a question will this increase my value in a females eyes or will further rapport prove more valuable?

 

[Jariel]

Girls today love to text. Most guys here will tell you to avoid texting and keeping it to a minimum, but I don't agree. I've had a lot of positive results from texting women, building rapport, comfort levels and sexual tension.

A lot of the dates I've been on flow naturally because we've done a lot of the groundwork via text, and in numerous cases I've been able to escalate to sex within a few hours of meeting just based on sexual text messages we've been sending.

But just remember to reply at your convenience and don't get drawn into boring interview style questions. Get to know a bit about her and make it fun and flirty.

 

[Le killeur]

Cheers Jariel, i agree but i am just wondering if i suddenly stop the texting, even if her last text included a question, would this imply i wasnt interested or would the absence of my attention lead her to want me more?

 

[Crissco]

I agree with Jariel. My main work comes from texting. Theres been numerous times where ive set up the date the same night from... the computer, to texting, to having her come to me, to my bed room, to sex.

Plus it makes things easier on the guys point of view, you have sometime think of a comeback, your "game" doesnt need to be spot on 24/7 like on the phone or in person.

 

[Jariel]

Cheers Jariel, i agree but i am just wondering if i suddenly stop the texting, even if her last text included a question, would this imply i wasnt interested or would the absence of my attention lead her to want me more?

If you ignore it completely then she's probably going to think you're not interested. But if you leave it a few hours, you can keep her wondering about you, but still keep her focused on you.

 

[Packers2010]

i was going to ask. how the hell do you guys do this from txt. then i realized you need to have a good first impression.

witch i do not.

 

[shizz702]

Girls today love to text. Most guys here will tell you to avoid texting and keeping it to a minimum, but I don't agree. I've had a lot of positive results from texting women, building rapport, comfort levels and sexual tension.

A lot of the dates I've been on flow naturally because we've done a lot of the groundwork via text, and in numerous cases I've been able to escalate to sex within a few hours of meeting just based on sexual text messages we've been sending.

But just remember to reply at your convenience and don't get drawn into boring interview style questions. Get to know a bit about her and make it fun and flirty.

Gonna have to agree with this here. It is not ideal, but it works.

Last night for example this chick texted me wanting a shirtless pic to which she sent a sexy one. So after sending I asked her if she liked and said she loved it, and then I said good cause you will get to see for yourself tomorrow. Then she replied with a smiley.

I let it go with that and thought that sufficed to end it and then 30 min later she texted back wondering why I stopped texting her.

These chicks love to text these days, got to get with it but at the same time try to keep it minimal as possible by not initiating unnecessary contact, and don't come off needy sending a bunch of messages if you don't get response.

 

[vatoloco]

"Give her the gift of missing you."​

 

[Le killeur]

Its more of an instant message convo where we are just chatting. Im inclined to try vataloco's method as she sometimes waits 7 hours to reply, however i believe by keeping the convo going it is proving more beneficial as she doesnt appear to be phased by long waits