Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
Been with GF for just over a year recently moved in with me, she’s got some great qualities and would do pretty much anything I asked her to
BUT
Im starting to find the attraction between us dwindle , she’s fairly young (23) and has made some poor decisions In life built some debt , dead end job in a a company which has just gone bust , and deep down harbours a very childish mentality
Example - still sleeps with childhood soft toy , the world stops when she is feeling under the weather for whatever reason which is quite often , ignores problems in the hope they will disappear , seems to find it difficult to motivate herself , hides in bed when somethings going wrong
Her parents are extremely “easy going “ and are guilty of babying her they still see her as a child and not a 23 year old woman
Ive tried several methods to try to motivate and encourage her to improve her situation but instead of taking my advice on board it just goes in one year and out the other
whilst all this is going on our sex life is struggling , im finding myself getting bored checking other chicks out and longing for a fling
ultimately I just want her to improve herself and “grow up” as I have done all my life
I feel its slightly unfair to end the relationship purely because she’s having a tough time as she is a good girl
problem is im not entirely convinced she’s got the mental strength to do it
ive said if she hasn’t improved her situation by this time next year im going to leave hopefully this will be enough to kick her A$$ into gear
anyone got any experience in a relationship like this ?
BUT
Im starting to find the attraction between us dwindle , she’s fairly young (23) and has made some poor decisions In life built some debt , dead end job in a a company which has just gone bust , and deep down harbours a very childish mentality
Example - still sleeps with childhood soft toy , the world stops when she is feeling under the weather for whatever reason which is quite often , ignores problems in the hope they will disappear , seems to find it difficult to motivate herself , hides in bed when somethings going wrong
Her parents are extremely “easy going “ and are guilty of babying her they still see her as a child and not a 23 year old woman
Ive tried several methods to try to motivate and encourage her to improve her situation but instead of taking my advice on board it just goes in one year and out the other
whilst all this is going on our sex life is struggling , im finding myself getting bored checking other chicks out and longing for a fling
ultimately I just want her to improve herself and “grow up” as I have done all my life
I feel its slightly unfair to end the relationship purely because she’s having a tough time as she is a good girl
problem is im not entirely convinced she’s got the mental strength to do it
ive said if she hasn’t improved her situation by this time next year im going to leave hopefully this will be enough to kick her A$$ into gear
anyone got any experience in a relationship like this ?