"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Contacts me after a month?

whichonespink

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I work at a bar so occasionally I have girls approach me. About a month ago a really hot one comes up and is all over me all night. She gives me her number and makes me promise to call, and after a few days I do. She says she'll call me back later to make plans for the weekend, well she never calls. So I pretty much dismiss her. I mean it bothered me of course, she is hot, but I stopped stressing over it and just pretty much wrote her out of my life.

The other day I get a text from her saying "hey stranger" as if I'm the one who blew her off haha. I wasn't going to respond but I figured, why the fvck not...So i texted her the next day:

Me: Hey whats up
Her: nothin much u?...sorry i never called you back ive been super busy.
Me: no prob...i was at work last nite (my reason for not txting her right back)
Me: do you even rememebr txing me last night? (i figured she was just drunk)
Her: Of course
Me: haha alright. we'll let me know when u guys are in town again maybe i'll let you in for free : )
Her: we're comin tonight and sat!
Me: Ahh! so thats what you want me for!
Her: no....lol...we dont know what we're doin yet.
Me: alright we'll im not workin 2night but if ur around give me a call.
Her: okey dokey.

She didnt call me that night nor Sat. I was just wondering why she would even contact me after such a long hiatus. She appologized for her actions even though i didnt bring it up that she went a month without returning my call. Is it possible that she has genuine interest in me? I know shes in the guard and was gone for that whole month. Does this seem kinda weird to you guys? Any advice on what to do with this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whichonespink

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yeah it does come across as that way...i prob shouldnt have brought up that whole letting her in for free thing.
 

Alphamale1821

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Sadly to say your just another guy that she is attempting to use to get what she wants because she's hot. She is so used to she knew that night she first met you"hmmm this guy is a bartender which means extra perks for me, time to flirt and show him fake interest" Time goes on and she's back in town and what do you know she has your number to use you. Lesson learned with hot chicks you have to be a real challenge.
 

whichonespink

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yeah beleive me that ran threw my head too. but when i met her i didnt do a damn thing for her. no free drinks, no free entry, nothing to even give the impression that i would do sh*t for her. I just thought it was an interesting situation never happend to me before and wanted u guys' take on it...im going out with a diff. girl tomorrow so its no big deal.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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