"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Contacting Ol' Friends From The Past

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Anyone here every contact ol' friends from your past like maybe business, neighorhood or school friends after years not talking or seeing them? If so, how did it go did they respond in kind or surprised to hear from you or was it cold and no response on emails or left messages on phone?

I am thinking about contacting an ol' friend I haven't seen or talked to in over 20 years I have all his contact information and I wonder if it would even be worth it.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I personally haven't done this, but I helped my grandmother track down old friends and the response was great the few times that's happened.

Go for it. You don't really have much to lose
 
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Thanks mpimpin, I might do it it can't hurt.

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I personally haven't done this, but I helped my grandmother track down old friends and the response was great the few times that's happened.

Go for it. You don't really have much to lose
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LS,

I just had an old friend contact me today after about 5 years. Oddly enough I was just wondering about him yesterday. Turned out to be a good response.

Good luck with your situation
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks for the encouragment men.

I have sent him a email he lives in another state... I am wondering how he is going to react after all these years.

I'll keep you informed..

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That's pretty neat mpimpin... usually when your thinking about someone thats when they out of the blue pop up maybe my ol' friend is having those passing thoughts about me... though 20 plus years is a long long time a lot of water has gone under the bridge you just never know.

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LS,

I just had an old friend contact me today after about 5 years. Oddly enough I was just wondering about him yesterday. Turned out to be a good response.

Good luck with your situation
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Well you were right my ol' buddy was surprised to hear from me and the irony of it was just two weeks ago another ol' friend of mine was in town there where he lives and was asking about me but that friend lives in California. I will get his contact info and see whats up with him too.

It must be in the air or something as we all were thinking about each other thats freaky but everything was cool and positive.

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Glad to hear it turned out pretty good.
 
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i thought about adding friends from towns i used to live at but it just reeks to living in the past to me. Life takes you in new directions for a reason, new people, new friends, can't live in the past.

of course if youve had a truly close best friend i can understand but for everyone else i rather live in the present.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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