"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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contacting bpd ex

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so after more than 2 years i have ignored her(no contact)
but the sex was crazy, seriously havent met a bish that would do the sh!ttt shes done from licking azzhole to all kinds of nasty sh!!tttt lol

i know if i contact her i could smash it again

bad idea?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many threads are there regarding this topic? It's getting old. Quit being desperate.

Jair213 said:
sh!ttt shes done from licking azzhole to all kinds of nasty sh!!tttt lol
You want her putting her skid marked tongue in your mouth? hahaha
 

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yes i understand were everyone is coming from, but damn the sex was amazing its not about being desperate its about the nasty sex that was sick, i use to mouthfvck this slut so good hahahahahahhaha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you can handle your way out of a worst case scenario then sure, go ahead. Lay down a few conditions to yourself saying you'll bail if x or y or z happens. Don't come back here crying if you fvck it up though, you're responsible for your own well-being.
 

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A BPD woman is like a life-support machine that's been hooked up backwards and will suck life out of you. That being said, if and when my long distance BPD ex visits my area with her friends and wants to see me, I'm going to have sex with her without any emotional attachment, and I'm going to hit on her friends in front of her. Of course if I'm in a serious relationship at the time, I might blow her off. I think I'm equipped to handle a BPD FWB at this point.
 

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Jair213 said:
so after more than 2 years i have ignored her(no contact)
but the sex was crazy, seriously havent met a bish that would do the sh!ttt shes done from licking azzhole to all kinds of nasty sh!!tttt lol

i know if i contact her i could smash it again

bad idea?
Man. That's porno stuff, maybe she's into some bukakees too. Sick shlt!

Imagine two or three more sick bish like that in your lap and would drain your jizz dry til blood only comes out from it *pun* hahaha.

A girl Licking my azzhole then sucks my balls like they're macaroons. I luv it!

Damn, she might even drink pee, or eat poop like they're fruitcakes on christmas eve *disgusting*


Care to give her number to me? Just kidding. Me luv her already man! hahaha

Be careful though man, as i'm sure you know, they're fun and deadly as well. Haven't been into one so far.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RagingBalls said:
Man. That's porno stuff, maybe she's into some bukakees too. Sick shlt!

Imagine two or three more sick bish like that in your lap and would drain your jizz dry til blood only comes out from it *pun* hahaha.

A girl Licking my azzhole then sucks my balls like they're macaroons. I luv it!

Care to give her number to me? Just kidding. Me luv her already man! hahaha
She use too suck me dry all the time bruh lol

Give me your email If your interested in some nudes ;)
 

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Grewd said:
If you can handle your way out of a worst case scenario then sure, go ahead. Lay down a few conditions to yourself saying you'll bail if x or y or z happens. Don't come back here crying if you fvck it up though, you're responsible for your own well-being.
Im fully aware of this, Thanks bro.
 

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Jair213 said:
She use too suck me dry all the time bruh lol

Give me your email If your interested in some nudes ;)

Hey i will man ;) I'll pm you

Dude, i understand you, you crave the shlt she gave you and that's it.

It's like a fvcking coke for your c0ck.

I won't be hypocrite saying i don't crave for that shlt. I do and BPD bishes or hookers etc. are the gateway for that debaucheries.
 

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asa_don said:
funny how everybody on here claims to have a bpd ex.
Honestly, I've come to believe that a BPD ex is a lot of our reasons for being on this site to begin with. It was mine that laid the groundwork for me needing to get outta the beta frame of mind, why not others? Plus, the majority here seem to have encountered one at some point in their lives. I just spoke for everyone else, do correct me if i'm wrong lol
 

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j.619 said:
Honestly, I've come to believe that a BPD ex is a lot of our reasons for being on this site to begin with. It was mine that laid the groundwork for me needing to get outta the beta frame of mind, why not others? Plus, the majority here seem to have encountered one at some point in their lives. I just spoke for everyone else, do correct me if i'm wrong lol
i see too many people claim bpd for the smallest things when it's not even true. some guy will say "yeah she was into to me, gave me great sex, had a great time, but she lost interest quick, so she's a bpd." come on, too many people say that as an excuse.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asa_don said:
funny how everybody on here claims to have a bpd ex.
Cluster B PDs are present 6-9% of the general population. High promiscuity multiples the chance to meet one. Mine had more sexual partners/paramours while(!) married than moste single women, especially considering her age.
 

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Jair213 said:
i know if i contact her i could smash it again

bad idea?
Is it bad idea for recovered heroin addict to shoot smack into his veins just one more time?
 

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Cluster B PDs are present 6-9% of the general population. High promiscuity multiples the chance to meet one. Mine had more sexual partners/paramours while(!) married than moste single women, especially considering her age.
having more sexual patners does not mean bpd. i see a lot of bpd claims just like that, most of them aren't true. 9% is too high.
 

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asa_don said:
having more sexual patners does not mean bpd. i see a lot of bpd claims just like that, most of them aren't true. 9% is too high.
Promiscuity is a trait, read the DSM-V. The diagnosis requires 5 out of 9 criteria, so it's alone won't qulify for one. I completely agree that we have many false BPD claims, mostly from young members. Those with real encounter will sooner or later end up on support sites like bpdfamily and desperately try to figure out what happened.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2719454/

In addition, while the prevalence of substantial BPD symptomatology was markedly higher in the psychiatric subsample than in the other subsamples, as expected, within all samples the prevalence of these behaviors was approximately double among those with borderline personality symptomatology compared to those without these symptoms. These data support the concept that a substantial minority of patients with borderline personality symptomatology evidence casual sexual behavior as well as promiscuity, thereby supporting the inclusion of this criterion in various assessments for BPD.
1 percent Antisocial
2 percent Histrionic
2-4 percent Borderline
1 percent Narcisstic

Just add these up you got at least 6 percent for Cluster B, and that is on the lower end of the estimates.

The NESARC found that the personality disorders are pervasive in the general population: In 2001- 2002, fully 16.4 million individuals (7.9 percent of all adults) had obsessive-compulsive personality disorder; 9.2 million (4.4 percent) had paranoid personality disorder; 7.6 million (3.6 percent) had antisocial personality disorder; 6.5 million (3.1 percent) had schizoid personality disorder; 4.9 million (2.4 percent) had avoidant personality disorder; 3.8 million (1.8 percent) had histrionic personality disorder; and 1.0 million (0.5 percent) had dependent personality disorder.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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