devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
personally whenever someone gets my number i tell them that i prefer texts to calls(because i kind of dislike phone calls)
i sure as hell wouldn't respond like that though
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Contacting a girl went down unexpectedly
- Thread starter Kiran1991
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i sure as hell wouldn't respond like that though
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Two days after getting her number, I decided to call her after work thinking she would also have my number. I called her at 9:05 pm, I wanted to ask her out, so decided to initiate with a casual greet. The conversation went like this:
Me: Hello is this Archie?
Archie: ummmm, whos this?
Me: This is Kiran from your company…
Archie: (silence)
Me: Did you Have dinner?
Archie: yeah….
Me: So how was your day?
Archie: Why did you call?
Me: Sorry???... I simply called to say Hi…
Archie: Don’t call me
Me: Why is there a problem?
Archie: Don’t call me, I don’t like it.
Me: Oh! You don’t like?!!... whats the matter…
Archie: yeah.. I m cutting off
Me: Ok...
Me: Hello is this Archie?
Archie: ummmm, whos this?
Me: This is Kiran from your company…
Archie: (silence)
Me: Did you Have dinner?
Archie: yeah….
Me: So how was your day?
Archie: Why did you call?
Me: Sorry???... I simply called to say Hi…
Archie: Don’t call me
Me: Why is there a problem?
Archie: Don’t call me, I don’t like it.
Me: Oh! You don’t like?!!... whats the matter…
Archie: yeah.. I m cutting off
Me: Ok...
Tictac
Banned
Pretty clear. Leave her alone
Neither do you, but based on what we do know from the OP...
Also what you quoted is the opposite of white knighting, I'm confused
Edit: Just saw the phone conversation. B*tch confirmed.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
we told you to text her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
is this the original conversation or did you have a new one?
Its the original conversation. She was expecting me to talk but I have completely ignored her since that day.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
never speak to her again, she's too much of a ***** to deserve any of your time or attention. however she isn't enough of a ***** to try and spite her so stay away from her friends/family, no matter how hot they are(i mean this in a, don't try to bang her BFF to spite her kinda way).
true. its better I avoid them at any cost. No point in going for her, she'll worsen my life anyways! its better to love people who care for us
Tictac
Banned
This^^^^true. its better I avoid them at any cost. No point in going for her, she'll worsen my life anyways! its better to love people who care for us
Just don't act all butt hurt. Treat her like anyone else at the office.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea. Jus chilling out with my buddies. Saw Captain America Civil war today. (Ant-man stole the show! btw)....
life too short for worries, just realized happiness
daddymonsterpoodle
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Who knows, or cares. Didn't work, Boohoo, move on.
Accept the fact you don't like (get attracted to) all girls/women in this world. Accept the fact every girl/woman does not like (get attracted to) you and you fall into that category of men she is not attracted to. No need to hate her, form grudge against her, and avoid her. She is your co-worker; you may have to work in coordination with her, sometimes, and you don't want to get fired for avoiding her. As one of the posters said earlier, treat her like any other person. You tried and it did not work out. Now, find someone else who also likes you. Don't ever try to manufacture a woman's interest. Don't ever ask the reason why she is not interested. It's your fault, OP.
OK.
I cringe.
I cringe harder.