(we are both 20) I have a girl from my past who I hooked up with briefly, she was very into me for months and was very clingy with me. Things didn't end up working out between us ( I never saw her as a serious girlfriend and she was always hinting toward a relationship with me, as well as this I may have lost my frame a little bit toward the end though nothing major). She withdrew herself and told me she didn't want to continue our romance and I agreed with her.
Fast forward months later and she's single again, I had a small catchup conversation with her on social media in which she was putting effort into her replies and carrying the conversation decently, but the conversation fizzled out due to me working and replying slower (hours between my replies). A couple weeks later I posted a story and she replied to it making a joke about it (is this an IOI?), I joked back a couple hours later but by the time I sent my replies (just a couple of jokes), she was asleep so she just read them the following morning and didn't say anything back.
I dont know what my move is now, I dont see her irl anymore but I feel as though if I did I could run some solid game how I used to, only thing is I'm not sure what to hit her up with or how to go about it. I also dont want to seem overeager and push her away because I was always distant with her and I sometimes feel as though this used to make her more obsessed with me, but that only worked well since I'd be around her irl and could keep the interest then. Any advice?
Fast forward months later and she's single again, I had a small catchup conversation with her on social media in which she was putting effort into her replies and carrying the conversation decently, but the conversation fizzled out due to me working and replying slower (hours between my replies). A couple weeks later I posted a story and she replied to it making a joke about it (is this an IOI?), I joked back a couple hours later but by the time I sent my replies (just a couple of jokes), she was asleep so she just read them the following morning and didn't say anything back.
I dont know what my move is now, I dont see her irl anymore but I feel as though if I did I could run some solid game how I used to, only thing is I'm not sure what to hit her up with or how to go about it. I also dont want to seem overeager and push her away because I was always distant with her and I sometimes feel as though this used to make her more obsessed with me, but that only worked well since I'd be around her irl and could keep the interest then. Any advice?
