"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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constructive criticism of SS

wavejams007

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I kow I might get flamed for this, but oh well, it is the truth. A lot of the questions and problems on this site could be solved by, you ready for this?, going out and getting the field experience. Instead of coming here with all hypothetical questions and problems, you could use one of the few things you will always have with you, sosuave.net or not, your logic. It would be for the benefit of the whole community if people would just take the risk, go out and try different methods and techniques and then report on how it went and ask for analysis, because from what I have been seeing lately, newbies and novices nowhere near experts just give their analysis of hyp. questions while the true PUAs and DJs are actually going out and getting the experience. This is just criticism to make this site better. More and more are leaving this site because it is running rampant with unsound advice from people who don't know what they are really talking about. As it has been stated before, people like pook and others have dissappeared because 1. they don't need this site anymore because they know that experience is worth a thousand posts 2. Newbies come asking questions that have already been answered, to which I say DAFS and 3. this site has grown way too large with people who aren't willing to put in the work and time on their own to make this site better. Personally, I will still be around this site, but most likely less and less, ecause I have found that KBJs are useless, and if I post, it will only be for important stuff, or things that I deem worthy of an answer.


Also, mods, I know U look through a lot of threads, but this site would be better if those threads that have already been answered are closed and the poster informed to do a search.

I am not saying that I am perfect and that I have never posted things that have already been answered, but I have tred to nswer my question through the articles on this site before asking them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheVirtualMind

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*Ladies and Gentlemen, this is what we have been waiting for.*

A member that says to close the redundant (it means repeated, for you Einstiens) threads because they have been answered before. He also says a way to keep you from complaining about it.

Great job wave.
 

B-Lemond

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Great post!


I think it's time for MORE mods and STRICTER mods, to keep this site clean and wonderful and jolly and all those great and positive things.

MORE MODS PLEASE...
 
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