"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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constructive criticism of SS

wavejams007

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I kow I might get flamed for this, but oh well, it is the truth. A lot of the questions and problems on this site could be solved by, you ready for this?, going out and getting the field experience. Instead of coming here with all hypothetical questions and problems, you could use one of the few things you will always have with you, sosuave.net or not, your logic. It would be for the benefit of the whole community if people would just take the risk, go out and try different methods and techniques and then report on how it went and ask for analysis, because from what I have been seeing lately, newbies and novices nowhere near experts just give their analysis of hyp. questions while the true PUAs and DJs are actually going out and getting the experience. This is just criticism to make this site better. More and more are leaving this site because it is running rampant with unsound advice from people who don't know what they are really talking about. As it has been stated before, people like pook and others have dissappeared because 1. they don't need this site anymore because they know that experience is worth a thousand posts 2. Newbies come asking questions that have already been answered, to which I say DAFS and 3. this site has grown way too large with people who aren't willing to put in the work and time on their own to make this site better. Personally, I will still be around this site, but most likely less and less, ecause I have found that KBJs are useless, and if I post, it will only be for important stuff, or things that I deem worthy of an answer.


Also, mods, I know U look through a lot of threads, but this site would be better if those threads that have already been answered are closed and the poster informed to do a search.

I am not saying that I am perfect and that I have never posted things that have already been answered, but I have tred to nswer my question through the articles on this site before asking them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheVirtualMind

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*Ladies and Gentlemen, this is what we have been waiting for.*

A member that says to close the redundant (it means repeated, for you Einstiens) threads because they have been answered before. He also says a way to keep you from complaining about it.

Great job wave.
 

B-Lemond

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Great post!


I think it's time for MORE mods and STRICTER mods, to keep this site clean and wonderful and jolly and all those great and positive things.

MORE MODS PLEASE...
 
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