"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Constantly cold hands & feet

alboh

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For as long as I can remember, my hands and feet have always been very cold, even in the summer they are freezing. This is a serious pain, not only because its uncomfortable but because it makes kino that much more difficult. Any idea what causes this? What can I about it?

By the way I'm a tall skinny guy (6'4'', 175 lbs) with very large hands and feet, I'm sure this has something to do with it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ian19

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I know two people who have Raynaud's. This could be the problem. Alot of people get some relief from using supplements like ginkgo and cayenne that increase circulation to the hands and feet. Still, you should see a physician first to see if that's what it is.



http://my.webmd.com/hw/health_guide_atoz/hw180983.asp
 
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