"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Constant road block with older chicks

tryst type

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Sometimes I'll be in the mood for an older woman's company but 60% of the time they'll say this "I'm flattered but there's too much of an age difference"

Any good come backs to change the way they're looking at it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rum

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It's just an excuse...I think of it this way. Here is an older chick who's still single. Nothing is good enough for her She's probably tossed away 3-4 Mr. Rights by now for stupid little reasons. And she keeps finding excuses to make the same mistakes.

You're not asking her for a marriage right off the bat or anything. If she can't be bothered then the problem is with her, between her ears, not with you.

They should be jumping on the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young man on their arm to flaunt to their friends.
 

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"You seem a bit young for me too, but I'll make an exception"

Then just continue like she said nothing.

If that fails, try using rum's kind of mind set and incoporate it. Like "look look i know, but i thought i would give you the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young mans arm to cling on to and flaunt to your friends"

Being younger should never really be a disadvantage if you think about it.
 
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