"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Constant road block with older chicks

tryst type

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Sometimes I'll be in the mood for an older woman's company but 60% of the time they'll say this "I'm flattered but there's too much of an age difference"

Any good come backs to change the way they're looking at it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rum

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It's just an excuse...I think of it this way. Here is an older chick who's still single. Nothing is good enough for her She's probably tossed away 3-4 Mr. Rights by now for stupid little reasons. And she keeps finding excuses to make the same mistakes.

You're not asking her for a marriage right off the bat or anything. If she can't be bothered then the problem is with her, between her ears, not with you.

They should be jumping on the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young man on their arm to flaunt to their friends.
 

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"You seem a bit young for me too, but I'll make an exception"

Then just continue like she said nothing.

If that fails, try using rum's kind of mind set and incoporate it. Like "look look i know, but i thought i would give you the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young mans arm to cling on to and flaunt to your friends"

Being younger should never really be a disadvantage if you think about it.
 
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