"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Constant road block with older chicks

tryst type

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Sometimes I'll be in the mood for an older woman's company but 60% of the time they'll say this "I'm flattered but there's too much of an age difference"

Any good come backs to change the way they're looking at it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's just an excuse...I think of it this way. Here is an older chick who's still single. Nothing is good enough for her She's probably tossed away 3-4 Mr. Rights by now for stupid little reasons. And she keeps finding excuses to make the same mistakes.

You're not asking her for a marriage right off the bat or anything. If she can't be bothered then the problem is with her, between her ears, not with you.

They should be jumping on the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young man on their arm to flaunt to their friends.
 

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"You seem a bit young for me too, but I'll make an exception"

Then just continue like she said nothing.

If that fails, try using rum's kind of mind set and incoporate it. Like "look look i know, but i thought i would give you the opportunity to have an energetic, good looking young mans arm to cling on to and flaunt to your friends"

Being younger should never really be a disadvantage if you think about it.
 
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