"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Considering moving to either NY or Chicago

ddarkjedi

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Hello Don Juan wannabes, I'm originally from the state of Michigan where I was raised and lived there almost my whole life. I have been in Los Angeles for about 2.5 years now and went to film school and currently looking for work in the post production in the Los Angeles Area. I'm 31 years old and finally figured out what I want to do for a living, A career working in the entertainment industry and ready to settle down. I NO LONGER want to be in LOS ANGELES!!!! I'm not that IMPRESSED WITH LA.!!! I don't want to write a long story here why I want to move out of Los Angeles. IT KINDA SUCKS HERE.!!! I'd rather relocate to one of these two cities New York City or Chicago that has a REAL CENTER CITY!!! I'm wondering if anyone here has relocated to New York or Chicago from Los Angeles, maybe I'd consider San Francisco as well as an alternative? Anyone here give me some reasons which major city should I move to one of these cities that I mentioned Above. My obvious choice on the top of my list is New York City because there is a better chance of getting a job in the entertainment industry. I like some help or any Advice please.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmm. I thought La was the entertainment capitol of the world. Are you really saying that its too much competition in LA?



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I'd rather work in the entertainment industry in New York, there are alot of opportunities there as well and a better city than Los Angeles. LA might be the entertainment capital in the World, but I like New York much better.
 
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