"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Considerate or not to be considerate?

DJ4Real

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Well, there is this girl who got mad at me because I called her "woman". I think she got the wrong impression of what I said. She has been ignoring me for a few days. I don't know, but I think she feels that I 'wronged' her when I called her 'woman'. She is freaking out over a small thing (imo). I was thinking of IMing her, but not to apologize. Any opinions? should I be considerate of what she may be feeling? or not?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Joe The Homophobe

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If a girl gets mad cause you called her a woman then your mistake was not calling her a b1tch, because that's what she is!

don't you dare apologize for something so miniscule like this. If you do I hope you get banned from this site for being the biggest pu$$y ever!

seriously you better not be apologizing to her, you should be apologizing to us for having the audacity to make a thread on whether you should apologize to a female for calling her what she is, a woman!
 

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You read wrong.

A quote from my post above, "I was thinking of IMing her, but not to apologize".

To give you a better idea of how I said "woman"

The convo in which she 'flipped'
Her: hey
Me: what's up
Her: Not much. You?
Me: doing my thing.
Her: And what would that be
Me: don't question me, woman.
Me: no need to worry though, it's nothing freaky...like the stuff that you think about.
Her: Woman? At least im not yours thank god
Me: "Woman? At least im not yours thank god", Amen to that.....
Her: Good im glad we agree
Me: we as in, you agree with me....not I agree with you....lol, you were the one who said that.
Me: starting that bull...like usual...
Her: You started it you would think in all your years you would have learned how to talk to a woman.... Or me. Guess not.

To be honest, I think she likes me. But she said that because she felt offended.
 
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