"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Consider the Purpose of Each Message You Send Her

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The next time you are about to send a text, email or voice mail - STOP and ask yourself: what is the overall theme of the message you are sending?

Is it political? Is it whiny? Is it negative? - Then don't send it.

In general, it is best to only send messages that are romantic, funny, or which formalize plans. Remember: she will eventually associate receiving a message from you with some feeling. Make sure it is a good one.

PS - This is another reason NOT to have your significant other(s) as FB friends, for there is no way to follow the above rules when you have 100 guy friends reading also.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not worth talking politics with women, even after 6 months of dating.
 
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