"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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consecuences of dating a slut...

pyros

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Hi.

What does it really imply to seriously date a former slut?
I mean besides it is disggusting just to think that your girlfriend sucked many ****s etc,
what are the consecuences of being with a girl that has been a slut before she met you?


I'm casually dating a girl that has been a real slut and she has no problem talking about it which is...nice...somehow...because she's really honest but I would never want her to be my girlfriend.
Shes ****ed many guys, guys 15+ years older than her, started to have sex at 14, ****ed two women, had one night stands etc etc and she's just almost 22 y.o.
The funny thing is that she does not consider herself promiscuous, and of course not a *****. lol.

Everybody says that she's more likely to cheat on you but, is it? and what else besides this? what other negative consecuences?


Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pyros

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its funy she calls herself a pro too when having sex...
Funny thing is she's always telling me about guys hitting on her, talking to her...
From her point of view, there are dozens of guys wanting to bang her.
Shes just a 6.5 in my opinion but she seems to get same attention from guys like a pop star.

what do you mean by sloppy seconds risk?
 

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get her to go with you to nightclubs to hook up some 3 somes...that would be sweet..it's easy if you have a good looking wild crazy girl to go hunting with you..
 

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The only difference is she is honest. When will you guys snap out of the 1950s and realize girls have just as much sex as we do. The same way guys lie about sex by adding numbers, most women lie by decreasing numbers.
I would actually find her honesty refreshing.

Furthermore, her past sex life wouldn't make her more likely to cheat.
I dare say it would make her less likely cheat.
Because she has been around and seen all shapes, sizes and by now
probably knows exactly what she likes and doesnt like. So she has no reason to cheat out of curiosity.
If you open your mind, she may even teach you a thing or two that can make you a better lover.

In conclusion, sex feels good. She doesnt lose value because of her sexual past, atleast not to me. You need to base her value on something more relevant like
Honesty (which she has demonstrated), Trustworthiness, Loyalty;
Just being fun to be around..

Etc etc
 

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You nearly described my 1st girlfriend to a t. It was a really dumb nine-week relationship I had. Time would have been better spent at bootcamp lol. You need to find out if she has matured significantly, if not she's just a fwb at best.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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