"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pyros

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Hi.

What does it really imply to seriously date a former slut?
I mean besides it is disggusting just to think that your girlfriend sucked many ****s etc,
what are the consecuences of being with a girl that has been a slut before she met you?


I'm casually dating a girl that has been a real slut and she has no problem talking about it which is...nice...somehow...because she's really honest but I would never want her to be my girlfriend.
Shes ****ed many guys, guys 15+ years older than her, started to have sex at 14, ****ed two women, had one night stands etc etc and she's just almost 22 y.o.
The funny thing is that she does not consider herself promiscuous, and of course not a *****. lol.

Everybody says that she's more likely to cheat on you but, is it? and what else besides this? what other negative consecuences?


Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pyros

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its funy she calls herself a pro too when having sex...
Funny thing is she's always telling me about guys hitting on her, talking to her...
From her point of view, there are dozens of guys wanting to bang her.
Shes just a 6.5 in my opinion but she seems to get same attention from guys like a pop star.

what do you mean by sloppy seconds risk?
 

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get her to go with you to nightclubs to hook up some 3 somes...that would be sweet..it's easy if you have a good looking wild crazy girl to go hunting with you..
 

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The only difference is she is honest. When will you guys snap out of the 1950s and realize girls have just as much sex as we do. The same way guys lie about sex by adding numbers, most women lie by decreasing numbers.
I would actually find her honesty refreshing.

Furthermore, her past sex life wouldn't make her more likely to cheat.
I dare say it would make her less likely cheat.
Because she has been around and seen all shapes, sizes and by now
probably knows exactly what she likes and doesnt like. So she has no reason to cheat out of curiosity.
If you open your mind, she may even teach you a thing or two that can make you a better lover.

In conclusion, sex feels good. She doesnt lose value because of her sexual past, atleast not to me. You need to base her value on something more relevant like
Honesty (which she has demonstrated), Trustworthiness, Loyalty;
Just being fun to be around..

Etc etc
 

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You nearly described my 1st girlfriend to a t. It was a really dumb nine-week relationship I had. Time would have been better spent at bootcamp lol. You need to find out if she has matured significantly, if not she's just a fwb at best.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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