"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Conscience vs Red Pill?

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I'm newly liberated, heart crushed and rose from the ashes a new man. I've spent several weeks digesting all of the Rational male books as well as the DJ bible.

My question is in regards to the women showing mixed signals / low interests. I know what Im suppose to do, I'm suppose to walk away. However, why is it that I feel bad in doing so? I have other plates, I can find others to take their place. But for some reason, I feel that if I just stop replying or if I intentionally ignore for several days, that I'm doing some sort of injustice. Is this a normal phase of the transition from blue pill to red?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Paarth Shah said:
However, why is it that I feel bad in doing so?
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Because it takes years to strengthen yourself emotionally. Basically the reason you feel bad is because you're insecure. You doubt yourself and so you take rejection personally instead of what it really is, which is incompatibility. The more you get rejected, the less it will bother you. Focus on you first, then other plates. If you're happy with yourself, there's not a woman (or man) in the world who can fvck with your head.
 
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Paarth Shah said:
I'm newly liberated, heart crushed and rose from the ashes a new man. I've spent several weeks digesting all of the Rational male books as well as the DJ bible.

My question is in regards to the women showing mixed signals / low interests. I know what Im suppose to do, I'm suppose to walk away. However, why is it that I feel bad in doing so? I have other plates, I can find others to take their place. But for some reason, I feel that if I just stop replying or if I intentionally ignore for several days, that I'm doing some sort of injustice. Is this a normal phase of the transition from blue pill to red?
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There is a critical resource that you possess. But you have a limited amount of it. It is your time. A woman who is giving you mixed signals or low interest is a waste of your time, which is, in essence, your life.

Respect yourself. Respect your time and your life. If you don’t, that is the real “injustice”. And a woman who doesn’t respect you or your time is doing an injustice to you.

-Augustus-
 
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