"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confusion about being a Don Juan

xxSLavExx

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The past couple of weeks I've been surfing on this forum and I've noticed alot of confusion as to what a Don Juan is.

A Don Juan doesn't pursue girls solely for sex. Those are called players.

A Don Juan doesn't purposely disrespect girls to try to cause attraction. That is a front and they will pick on it.

A Don Juan is not a bad boy or a jerk but possesses certain qualities that a jerk has.

A Don Juan doesn't look for a girlfriend, he chooses one. This also applies to everything that he pursues in life.


A Don Juan always has the power when interacting with the opposite sex, no matter what the situation is.

A Don Juan doesn't treat good looking women better than fat and ugly ones just because their better looking, because he sees people for what they are on the inside as well as the outer.

A Don Juan is always lookin so fresh and so clean.

A Don Juan is confident yet humble at the same time.

A Don Juan doesn't brag to his friends after getting laid.

AND FINALLY!...

A Don Juan's life doesn't revolve around women, because he is actively enjoying everything else in his life. He has places to see, people to meet, and money to make. Yet when he finds a women he wants they always seem interested and he doesn't know why and doesn't care. THAT is a true Don Juan.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fred Da Head

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And here I thought I was the only one who still saw the difference.

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