"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Confusion about being a Don Juan

xxSLavExx

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The past couple of weeks I've been surfing on this forum and I've noticed alot of confusion as to what a Don Juan is.

A Don Juan doesn't pursue girls solely for sex. Those are called players.

A Don Juan doesn't purposely disrespect girls to try to cause attraction. That is a front and they will pick on it.

A Don Juan is not a bad boy or a jerk but possesses certain qualities that a jerk has.

A Don Juan doesn't look for a girlfriend, he chooses one. This also applies to everything that he pursues in life.


A Don Juan always has the power when interacting with the opposite sex, no matter what the situation is.

A Don Juan doesn't treat good looking women better than fat and ugly ones just because their better looking, because he sees people for what they are on the inside as well as the outer.

A Don Juan is always lookin so fresh and so clean.

A Don Juan is confident yet humble at the same time.

A Don Juan doesn't brag to his friends after getting laid.

AND FINALLY!...

A Don Juan's life doesn't revolve around women, because he is actively enjoying everything else in his life. He has places to see, people to meet, and money to make. Yet when he finds a women he wants they always seem interested and he doesn't know why and doesn't care. THAT is a true Don Juan.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fred Da Head

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And here I thought I was the only one who still saw the difference.

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