"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confusion about being a Don Juan

xxSLavExx

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The past couple of weeks I've been surfing on this forum and I've noticed alot of confusion as to what a Don Juan is.

A Don Juan doesn't pursue girls solely for sex. Those are called players.

A Don Juan doesn't purposely disrespect girls to try to cause attraction. That is a front and they will pick on it.

A Don Juan is not a bad boy or a jerk but possesses certain qualities that a jerk has.

A Don Juan doesn't look for a girlfriend, he chooses one. This also applies to everything that he pursues in life.


A Don Juan always has the power when interacting with the opposite sex, no matter what the situation is.

A Don Juan doesn't treat good looking women better than fat and ugly ones just because their better looking, because he sees people for what they are on the inside as well as the outer.

A Don Juan is always lookin so fresh and so clean.

A Don Juan is confident yet humble at the same time.

A Don Juan doesn't brag to his friends after getting laid.

AND FINALLY!...

A Don Juan's life doesn't revolve around women, because he is actively enjoying everything else in his life. He has places to see, people to meet, and money to make. Yet when he finds a women he wants they always seem interested and he doesn't know why and doesn't care. THAT is a true Don Juan.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fred Da Head

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And here I thought I was the only one who still saw the difference.

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