...Actually, it's just me that's confused. lmao.
I know the pre-answer to it all is just to "make a move and see what happens" Which is true. Basically this attractive girl and I have hung out twice, she came down from up north and we've chilled a couple of times for short durations. Anyway she called me tonight and asked if she could stop by my place. The two times we've hung out she doesn't seem to like to make eye contact (shy, I guess.) And I can tell she's nervous and insecure. Anyway I've played it cool, sort of not showing a lot of initiation for the most part and she called me tonight to see what's up and to ask if she could stop by. I said yeah. She was at some dance show thing, so she just came by briefly. Anyway she said yeah call me if you wanna hang out or whatever.
Anyway I called her back up and invited her back over and to bring a movie. She said she's still at the show, and that she would have to go back home and eat dinner. The last time we hung out briefly, she pulled out the same way, saying she had to go home to eat. The last time though eventually she called me back and came back over, I had friends over at the time though so no isolation.
I know I'm over-analyzing the situation. But my parents, and my mom's boyfriend even, says that when girls constantly mention food, you're suppose to ask them out to dinner. And that they won't sleep with you until you buy them dinner and show them that you value them or whatever. While I'm not claiming it's plausible, the teachings of being alpha, not buying a girl anything prior to getting intimate, has been drilled into my head as a rule for years now. So I don't usually give out or anything, I just try to hook up with the girls.
So I'm not really sure at this point. Most ******* guys don't do anything for the girl until after he seduces her, right? What should I do at this point? Obviously I'll wait until she calls back later and such. I dunno. I know I'm over-analyzing.
I know the pre-answer to it all is just to "make a move and see what happens" Which is true. Basically this attractive girl and I have hung out twice, she came down from up north and we've chilled a couple of times for short durations. Anyway she called me tonight and asked if she could stop by my place. The two times we've hung out she doesn't seem to like to make eye contact (shy, I guess.) And I can tell she's nervous and insecure. Anyway I've played it cool, sort of not showing a lot of initiation for the most part and she called me tonight to see what's up and to ask if she could stop by. I said yeah. She was at some dance show thing, so she just came by briefly. Anyway she said yeah call me if you wanna hang out or whatever.
Anyway I called her back up and invited her back over and to bring a movie. She said she's still at the show, and that she would have to go back home and eat dinner. The last time we hung out briefly, she pulled out the same way, saying she had to go home to eat. The last time though eventually she called me back and came back over, I had friends over at the time though so no isolation.
I know I'm over-analyzing the situation. But my parents, and my mom's boyfriend even, says that when girls constantly mention food, you're suppose to ask them out to dinner. And that they won't sleep with you until you buy them dinner and show them that you value them or whatever. While I'm not claiming it's plausible, the teachings of being alpha, not buying a girl anything prior to getting intimate, has been drilled into my head as a rule for years now. So I don't usually give out or anything, I just try to hook up with the girls.
So I'm not really sure at this point. Most ******* guys don't do anything for the girl until after he seduces her, right? What should I do at this point? Obviously I'll wait until she calls back later and such. I dunno. I know I'm over-analyzing.
tag along, mmm its soo sunny outside today