"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Confusing them

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Gonna keep it short and sweet:

If I told a girl a while ago that I like her a while ago, is there any way to fool her/confuse into thinking if I do still?

Looking around the DJ Bible, and other articles, the forums, etc I noticed that having a girl wondering if you like her or not can really work to the guys advantage.

You guys know any way?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you don't like her anymore why do you want her to think you do?
 
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No, maybe i wasnt clear ><
I still like her alot, but I want to kinda push a reset button? Get her thinking if I still do, etc
 
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ahh, you've been friendzoned

the only solution to this has been mentioned a million times on the forums, you need to make her jealous. see other girls, and when your talking to her (you do talk to her, right?) casually drop an intimate detail or two about a girl you were with. Keep it light and funny, she'll eat it up.

They always do ;)
 
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