"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Confusing them

Goofball

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Location
Bangkok
Gonna keep it short and sweet:

If I told a girl a while ago that I like her a while ago, is there any way to fool her/confuse into thinking if I do still?

Looking around the DJ Bible, and other articles, the forums, etc I noticed that having a girl wondering if you like her or not can really work to the guys advantage.

You guys know any way?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

familyguyfan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2005
Messages
551
Reaction score
0
If you don't like her anymore why do you want her to think you do?
 

Goofball

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Location
Bangkok
No, maybe i wasnt clear ><
I still like her alot, but I want to kinda push a reset button? Get her thinking if I still do, etc
 

Mr. Debonaire

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2004
Messages
544
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
in front of my computer
ahh, you've been friendzoned

the only solution to this has been mentioned a million times on the forums, you need to make her jealous. see other girls, and when your talking to her (you do talk to her, right?) casually drop an intimate detail or two about a girl you were with. Keep it light and funny, she'll eat it up.

They always do ;)
 
Top